Intense question I know but are you able to this if they are in their chart? Should I post the synastry between us too? Any advice please ?
He is a taurus and Iam a scorpio. Both charts are attached. Thankyou!
View attachment 55230
Clearly you are feeling conflicted because you are in a relationship with a person who 'does have a really good side too'Thankyou for you reply, and you are so correct it's not funny !
I have been in a relationship with him food since sep 1999 and
I fear if I leave he might not let me,
he is verbally aggressive but not physical and threatens to kill when he gets angry
but I really don't know if he could actually go through with it as he does have a really good side too.
I know I cant get a definite answer but I know how much can be seen I someone's birthchart.
Thankyou again ��
The fact is that anyone 'is capable of murder' it just depends on the circumstancesJust the fact that he has made threats shows you are at risk, you don't need astrology to confirm what you know in your bones. No woman should live in fear of her partner.
Sun/Chiron conjunct can be abusive to others, especially when it's in the sign of great will and stubbornness. The bull doesn't give way! Add to that, Mercury and Venus in Taurus on Algol (the 'losing your head' fixed star placed at around 26 Taurus). These oppose Uranus, and Uranus is in Scorpio, the sign of deep dark passions; this indicates that he is always fearful of love suddenly cutting out on him (Uranian detachment) and will fight to the death (Scorpio) to stop that. I'm speaking metaphorically, but things often take on a life-or-death intensity with Scorpio.
For sweetness, his Pisces Ascendant and Neptune square. Also Mercury-Venus conjunct can sweet-talk you back into a relationship - the honey smeared over the wound he just inflicted.
If you plan to leave him, then google 'how to leave an abuser'. You'll find ample advice out there, from finding a safe place to go in advance and leaving some of your possessions there, to NOT telling him of your intentions. Telling him before you go is a risk. I presume you are living together since it's a long-term relationship? Any children?
Is he capable of murder?
hi starborn
I looked at the composite and you are in immediate danger. as this is a public forum and he could be lurking ,I will PM you with the details.
rahu
you'll have to forgive me coz I'm only learning astrology, (so don't hesitate to tell me where I'm wrong on anything) just wanted to reply out of interest in your situation since I've been there myself. Hope you don't mind?
I've had a look at his chart and even with my limited experience and knowledge I do see the potential for some aggressive tendencies with Mars conjunct Sun. Possibly even a forceful person in expressing their wants and needs to others. Also, this placement does nothing to temper the materialistic nature of Taurus but only serves to amplify the need for material success giving rise to superficiality if not balanced properly.
There may be some inclination toward saying hurtful things in the 'heat of the moment' and a resistance in accepting others emotional point of view or 'feelings'. A critical mind focused on trivialities and petty things.
Possessiveness and controlling behavior may be the most destructive force within the relationship, that and the 'intensity' with which he loves.
Indecisive in love.
There are positives though
He is very committed. Has drive and creativity. I sense a love for the arts?
He expresses his emotions freely but often says too much. Neptune can denote a vocation in the arts or a desire to work in the arts.
He can be destructive in his pursuit for control and power. A lot of power struggles in life, rebelliousness, was probably a quarrelsome student.
Capable of murder?
Someone once said to me that 'everyone' is capable of murder and I believe them.
We all have a dark side that if not tempered can cause all kinds of destructive behavior.
However, I can't see any aspect in his chart, nor do I believe that I could if it were there, that indicates that he could, would or will murder anyone but I do see traits that are very common in crimes of passion. Obsessiveness, intense feelings, restriction/control of loved ones, power issues, a highly sexual connection.
I think trusting your gut feeling is what is called for here. ALWAYS trust yourself.
I will do your chart now.. Just give me a bit to sit with it.
Your birth details show you are more aggressive than your partner. You also have depression. Were there any health issues after 2008.
Just the fact that he has made threats shows you are at risk, you don't need astrology to confirm what you know in your bones. No woman should live in fear of her partner.
Sun/Chiron conjunct can be abusive to others, especially when it's in the sign of great will and stubbornness. The bull doesn't give way! Add to that, Mercury and Venus in Taurus on Algol (the 'losing your head' fixed star placed at around 26 Taurus). These oppose Uranus, and Uranus is in Scorpio, the sign of deep dark passions; this indicates that he is always fearful of love suddenly cutting out on him (Uranian detachment) and will fight to the death (Scorpio) to stop that. I'm speaking metaphorically, but things often take on a life-or-death intensity with Scorpio.
For sweetness, his Pisces Ascendant and Neptune square. Also Mercury-Venus conjunct can sweet-talk you back into a relationship - the honey smeared over the wound he just inflicted.
If you plan to leave him, then google 'how to leave an abuser'. You'll find ample advice out there, from finding a safe place to go in advance and leaving some of your possessions there, to NOT telling him of your intentions. Telling him before you go is a risk. I presume you are living together since it's a long-term relationship? Any children?
I totally agree with sweet pea, the fact he has threaten you should be a red flag. we have exchanged PMs but I was unable to post the chart so since you have made this a public matter I will post the charts here.
the tri composite with 8/23/15( I changed this from the 22nd as I did not consider your post was from Australia)
and your and his composite is troubling to say the least pluto is square to the node and the sun is conjunct the node on this day. the reese/mars and reese/psyche midpoints are conjunct the node and square to pluto. this is all very malicious and with psyche involved, twisted love is part of the mix. as the sun square pluto about 4:50 pm on the 22nd, that evening and into the 23nd are very dangerous.
if someone had given me this tricompioste with no explanation, I would have cautioned against the possibility of deadly violence
any feedbacks to ack and share!