Why do I fear meeting new people?

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Purni

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My parents want me to meet their friends son but I am scared to meet people..

Almost 30 but never had bf or male friends.. not good with talking to male in general even if its cousins or family..

I believe i just had my saturn return as it passed my saturn in Purva Ashada..

I think i have opened up a lot compared to when i was young.. esp in the last two year however i am still lot quieter than anyone i know and have social anxiety and i fear to be in gatherings.

Why don’t i have confidence to meet people and socialise..
i do have sharp tongues tho.. which i get slack from my mom as i am scene as mean person from ppl in the family for speaking the truth?!

20/12/1989 23:18, hong kong (kowloon) female
 
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narasimha sharma

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11th CSL Jupiter is in 10th house in a barren sign owning 5, 8. Jupiter is in star of Rahu who is in 6 and Jupiter is in sub of Mercury who is in 5 and owns 2, 11. As 11th CSL Jupiter is connected to 11, we can not say there won't be no socializing at all. But since its connected to detrimental houses of 7, 8, 12 from the concerned house, there will be troubles and difficulties socializing in general. It is interesting to observe the karakas of the concern are also connected i.e. Jupiter and Mercury for speech and communication. Jupiter is getting an opposing aspect from Saturn, Sun, Mercury (who is connecting Jupiter to 11th bhava by being the sub lord of Jupiter and obstructing the 11th cusp to give its results). Also, the 2nd cusp of speech is afflicted with square aspects from Jupiter, Sun and Saturn who are all karakas to speak truth, honestly, strictly direct without massaging the subject and Mercury the giver of speech is helping them. Also, Moon, signifying mind, is near to the 2nd cusp and is getting these obstruction aspects from above planets, which shows you just dont have the inclination to speak.


I see, you have Saturn in 4th house and Jupiter in 10th house. Can you confirm if you have a very good career with nice income at hand? Also, you had to leave your home and come to distant places to succeed, am I right?

Also, you have Venus in 5th house in association with Rahu and Saturn in rapt conjunction with 5th cusp and Mars, planet of aggression, giving benefic aspect to Venus. Can I take some liberty in saying you might be a romantic (maybe at heart) and over-sexed? Moon is giving an extreme benefic aspect to Venus here in 5th house and so probably your mind can get involved in thinking about love and romance matters. As There are connections with 5th, 11th, Ketu and airy sign so probably you will get pleasure by just thinking of love and romance, but do not proceed to do in action.

but rest assured having Jupiter as your 1st, 5th, 7th cusp sublord will not make you go in pursuit of unnecessary romantic affairs and be honest to future partner. Can you please confirm?

Also, your chart does have the possibility of choosing your own partner, fall in love and get married if you decide to go on that course.
 
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Purni

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narasimha sharma said:
https://ibb.co/d0HV5Ks

11th CSL Jupiter is in 10th house in a barren sign owning 5, 8. Jupiter is in star of Rahu who is in 6 and Jupiter is in sub of Mercury who is in 5 and owns 2, 11. As 11th CSL Jupiter is connected to 11, we can not say there won't be no socializing at all. But since its connected to detrimental houses of 7, 8, 12 from the concerned house, there will be troubles and difficulties socializing in general. It is interesting to observe the karakas of the concern are also connected i.e. Jupiter and Mercury for speech and communication. Jupiter is getting an opposing aspect from Saturn, Sun, Mercury (who is connecting Jupiter to 11th bhava by being the sub lord of Jupiter and obstructing the 11th cusp to give its results). Also, the 2nd cusp of speech is afflicted with square aspects from Jupiter, Sun and Saturn who are all karakas to speak truth, honestly, strictly direct without massaging the subject and Mercury the giver of speech is helping them. Also, Moon, signifying mind, is near to the 2nd cusp and is getting these obstruction aspects from above planets, which shows you just dont have the inclination to speak.


I see, you have Saturn in 4th house and Jupiter in 10th house. Can you confirm if you have a very good career with nice income at hand? Also, you had to leave your home and come to distant places to succeed, am I right?

Also, you have Venus in 5th house in association with Rahu and Saturn in rapt conjunction with 5th cusp and Mars, planet of aggression, giving benefic aspect to Venus. Can I take some liberty in saying you might be a romantic (maybe at heart) and over-sexed? Moon is giving an extreme benefic aspect to Venus here in 5th house and so probably your mind can get involved in thinking about love and romance matters. As There are connections with 5th, 11th, Ketu and airy sign so probably you will get pleasure by just thinking of love and romance, but do not proceed to do in action.

but rest assured having Jupiter as your 1st, 5th, 7th cusp sublord will not make you go in pursuit of unnecessary romantic affairs and be honest to future partner. Can you please confirm?

Also, your chart does have the possibility of choosing your own partner, fall in love and get married if you decide to go on that course.
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Thankyou so much for your reading.
So much is true.
i just finished by bachelors in 2018, after a long gap of over 6years ..
I don’t have good career.. i am in minimum wage customer service job atm.

yes i was born in hk, but i m from nepal and currently in uk.

You are right i do think about love/relationship however i don’t act on it. I fear disappointment and i am afraid for outcomes. I get confused a lot and at times i think i have high expectations.
When i do fall for someone., Everything happen really fast, esp love and feelings but i regret after making decisions too.

My speech is very direct and straightforward, as i hate going around the bush and give fake compliments.

My friends say i have a sarcastic humor.
 
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narasimha sharma

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most of what I said can be seen from the chart, but some were personal experiences too. I have exact same combinations in my chart too Venus, Mars, Rahu in 5 so i know what you are saying. I fall hard and things happen fast and then they start unraveling which hurts me :happy:


Purni said:
Thankyou so much for your reading.
So much is true.
i just finished by bachelors in 2018, after a long gap of over 6years ..
I don’t have good career.. i am in minimum wage customer service job atm.

yes i was born in hk, but i m from nepal and currently in uk.

You are right i do think about love/relationship however i don’t act on it. I fear disappointment and i am afraid for outcomes. I get confused a lot and at times i think i have high expectations.
When i do fall for someone., Everything happen really fast, esp love and feelings but i regret after making decisions too.

My speech is very direct and straightforward, as i hate going around the bush and give fake compliments.

My friends say i have a sarcastic humor.
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Purni

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narasimha sharma said:
most of what I said can be seen from the chart, but some were personal experiences too. I have exact same combinations in my chart too Venus, Mars, Rahu in 5 so i know what you are saying. I fall hard and things happen fast and then they start unraveling which hurts me :happy:
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Omg.. right..

Btw are you married at all? How are your relationships?
 
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narasimha sharma

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no im not married, im still 29. But my 7th cusp star lord and sublord is Saturn which causes undue delay in marriage.
Your 7th cusp sublord is Jupiter in 10th getting 7th aspect from Saturn who happens to be your 7th cusp lord as well. SO rest assured there will be delays in marriage and accept it. The reason I say accept is because planets cannot be changed even if we worry :happy: so lets just accept and move on with life.
You do have marriage no questions in that, so dont you worry.

Purni said:
Omg.. right..

Btw are you married at all? How are your relationships?
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Purni

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narasimha sharma said:
no im not married, im still 29. But my 7th cusp star lord and sublord is Saturn which causes undue delay in marriage.
Your 7th cusp sublord is Jupiter in 10th getting 7th aspect from Saturn who happens to be your 7th cusp lord as well. SO rest assured there will be delays in marriage and accept it. The reason I say accept is because planets cannot be changed even if we worry :happy: so lets just accept and move on with life.
You do have marriage no questions in that, so dont you worry.
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Yours sound so much like mine.. probably 1989/1990 born?
 
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VenusS

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Brilliant, this conversation should be an example of how consultations should operate with the clients, taking regards to the emotional issues that he/she might face. Anyway, we need to start taking suffering seriously, should let go of our astrological egos and intellectual terrorism.

On your issue, I haven't read your chart, but I'm sure you're convinced with the user's answer. I'll say one thing though, it looks like you have an exaggerate opinion of men, that if you don't commit to their standards then your worth will become less. I'd like to say that we all are humans at the end of the day, suffering in this world. We all need companionship and love, whether it's spiritual or any way you perceive it to be. In brief, we are all losers and our opinions match.

Astrologically yours,
VenusS
 
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narasimha sharma

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astrological egos and intellectual terrorism

sir, those are very strong words :happy: what made you use them?


VenusS said:
Brilliant, this conversation should be an example of how consultations should operate with the clients, taking regards to the emotional issues that he/she might face. Anyway, we need to start taking suffering seriously, should let go of our astrological egos and intellectual terrorism.

On your issue, I haven't read your chart, but I'm sure you're convinced with the user's answer. I'll say one thing though, it looks like you have an exaggerate opinion of men, that if you don't commit to their standards then your worth will become less. I'd like to say that we all are humans at the end of the day, suffering in this world. We all need companionship and love, whether it's spiritual or any way you perceive it to be. In brief, we are all losers and our opinions match.

Astrologically yours,
VenusS
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VenusS

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Just the general observation of the modus operandi of these new narratives on astrology, except for few, without any deep discussions about the millions of other factors that are part of the methodology to determine what, how and why a planet works the way it does.

It's not much just to know the basics of astrology. One has to sink down into the vortex of various compendiums by the long lost sages of the golden period to understand the true nature of astrology.

Hope this clears up.
 
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Purni

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VenusS said:
Brilliant, this conversation should be an example of how consultations should operate with the clients, taking regards to the emotional issues that he/she might face. Anyway, we need to start taking suffering seriously, should let go of our astrological egos and intellectual terrorism.

On your issue, I haven't read your chart, but I'm sure you're convinced with the user's answer. I'll say one thing though, it looks like you have an exaggerate opinion of men, that if you don't commit to their standards then your worth will become less. I'd like to say that we all are humans at the end of the day, suffering in this world. We all need companionship and love, whether it's spiritual or any way you perceive it to be. In brief, we are all losers and our opinions match.

Astrologically yours,
VenusS
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Love your views.

Could you please look at my chart and advise further as to how to improve my self, overall?

Esp. jupiter aspecting sun, saturn and mercury?
 
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