My chiron in 10th causes me issues from childhood years.
Another interesting thread with interesting comments! I understand that you have Avoidant Personality Disorder from reading the thread.
Your past life wound is in Libra, 2nd house. That indicates that relationships are a key issue for you - that you were too dependent in them in the past life - or - too sensitive to other people's energies, so that you either withdrew from people or tried to control them. Either way, there's a problem with the Libra energy exchange that is natural to that sign.
Venus, the ruler of Libra, is in the 3rd house, in Scorpio conjunct Pluto. So, this indicates that the difficulty is around "communication" - perhaps listening, or speaking or putting thoughts into words properly - or simply not feeling heard or received by others. The 3rd house is all about putting thoughts and perceptions into words - and being able to communicate to others. It's a house of writers and teachers, among other things. So, your wound is around your self-value in relationship to people and your ability to communicate with others effectively.
Your North Node is in Aries 8th - so you need to learn to be less sensitive to others, much like Aries. Aries is very tuned into following one's own impulses - to being independent, having autonomy. Aries doesn't care so much what other people think about them because they're tuned into some inner resource that impels them to act from their own internal motivations. Libra is the opposite. Libra is very sensitive and feels other people's energy, and then sees itself in the energy or doesn't. A Libra can adopt what it likes in others for itself - and discovers himself that way. It's an energy exchange that can easily go wrong if other people's energy is negative, mean or unsympathetic. That's when Libra will withdraw or try to control.
Virgo can be very self-critical. I know. I have Virgo rising too. So, you have to work at challenging the negative self-talk - stand up to it - and say NO. Meditation can really help to control unwanted thoughts. Positive Virgo is analysis to understand - so you want to rise above any feelings of self-doubt, self-criticism, self-put downs of all kinds by being analytical. Once you ask "why", it puts you in your mind and not in those self-depricating feelings. On the negative, Virgo can be the doormat of the zodiac - the perfect victim - the one who selflessly puts others first at her own expense, and worries about everything. Positive Virgo is analyses to understand - is investigative, loves research, loves to teach and write and communicate. The ruler of your whole chart is Mercury - the ruler of Virgo.
And low and behold, your Mercury is in Libra. So you are meant to work on relationships - to learn to relate as an equal - to value yourself in relationships - to explore yourself in relationships - to rediscover yourself in relationships - all kinds.
You do have support in your chart. Aries Moon conjunct North Node is helping you be more indendent. In the 8th house, you can really investigate why you are the way you are - your feelings, your emotions, your thoughts - you can examine them there and change with the understanding you gain from analyzing yourself. Your Virgo Sun and rising will work well with the Moon to explore your inner landscape.
With Saturn on the IC in Sag, you may feel very serious deep inside - maybe ambitious too. Saturn can make us prone to be depressed there - as the IC is the inward most private self in the house of personal nurturin - and Saturn just wants to work, work, work -so there doesn't seem to be any space for truly feeling feelings. On the other hand, if you can use Saturn to dedicate yourself to doing inner work, he might just be the one to keep you committed to the work. Saturn also shows commitment and focus. You may have to work at making Saturn work for you there instead of feeling like it hinders you. If you take too much responsibility for other people's feelings - that's yet another thing Saturn will do. If you are too attached to people's responses to you - you may feel way too responsible for how they feel. Virgo will do that too.
Chiron is in the 10th - again - another Capricorn-Saturn symbol (as they naturally rule the 10th). So, I think the Chiron is pointing out that taking too much responsibility for how others feel in relationship to you - is a problem.
Jupiter in Pisces in the 7th - I have this too - can help you rise above all this. In a way, it allows one to be very imaginative in relating to others - and Jupiter is quite optimistic and of good cheer - and that helps. But it can also make one fantasize and be unrealistic in relationships - so there's a disconnect between what you think is happening between you and what really is happening between you.
All in all I'd say that Chiron is part of the "Taking too much responsibility for others" theme - and the healing is to see it, realize it, and to begin taking less responsibility for how others feel or respond to you. The Aries Moon is something to focus on - as this is so helpful! You really need to analyze and see how you play into this so that you can take positive steps not to play into it.