Lykanized
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This is true...I can relate a lot, actually I have said in another thread that I used to be in a relationship with an extremely manipulative person who was born just one day after me. She was extremely insecure about herself and I became her punching bag. I'm sure she had similar placements to me so I can understand where all the toxicity came from, and I could be her if I had enough power over someone.
Everyone has Pluto on their chart. No one can run away from it. And that's exactly what Pluto teaches us. Everyone has a dark side and we have to come to term with it. Pretending that it isn't there or shove in away just intensify it. The "don't think about the pink elephant" experiment really applies here. And once we finally acknowledge the dark side, we can work on turning it into positivity. I really appreciate that my 8H Pluto helps me to accept the not-so-great side of everyone and makes me more accepting and sympathetic to people (hence my statement you just quoted above). We are here in this world to cooperate and create a better place for everyone, not to nippick on each other's fault and start a war.
(Granted, I also have Uranus as the second most elevated planet. Uranus sees everyone as equal. I can feel a lot of this attitude in me)
Pluto is a very powerful planets. It represents all the horrible things in a human being that we rather not to think about. This is why so many people push it away and let it destroy them. But those who can control it will become the Phoenix - another symbol of Scorpio - and find power to raise other people up. At the end of the day, everyone has their free will. They can turn their chart into good or bad no matter how many "good" or "bad" placement they have.
Wherever that Pluto is in our chart, there lies the power to destroy, and the power to heal. We make the choice, but if we're going down a bad path, gravity might pull us to express it as a destructive force. It could either destroy us or destroy others. Especially since it does seem like insecurities are a huge factor and we all have insecurities to work through. Having it there in my 3rd house, it's all about my mind, my thoughts, my verbal expression. My thoughts can destroy me or they can heal me, my words can destroy others, or heal them. When things were really bad, I just wanted to hurt people psychologically and my thoughts were at their darkest. Realizing it was all about me wasn't easy