(please correct me if I wrong), are you making this difference between humans and animals with the representations of the zodiac? Like for example Aquarius (human) and Leo (animal)? Because if it is, WOW how cool !! I love to compare personality in this way too, but there are few that I know who interpret considering this differential !!
I get your point, by the way very clearly!! thanks again =D
LOL....no. The ''traits'' of the ''symbols'' of the signs are fun to think about....but they are only metaphors.
I personally, however, love to anthropomorphize just about everything. I don't know why this is. Maybe I just ''live'' in a life of symbolism and metaphor. To me, it's so much easier dealing with planets and aspects if you anthropomorphize them. The planets are people in a room. the aspects are the way they ''interact.''
me too!! I love it !! And I think it fits like a glove when we use it to observe human behavior.
Pluto rules the natural 8th house.....and sign....Scorpio. Pluto represents life and death...creation...pregnancy....and the 8th house is the house of pregnancy and other ''partnership accumulations.." so to speak.
There is no reason you cannot have love. BUT....what you are REALLY looking for is your MOTHER only - changed - into someone who will value and cherish you and the time she has with you.
well, I took my time to answer this, because it had a small impact on my emotional !!
When I read it, it brought tears to my eyes !! Because this is so complex for me, and changing the pattern isn't easy !!
I really demand change from others (I know this very well) ... I witnessed my mother's change towards me for example ... (and now this is even inappropriate for my relationship with my mother) ... and I also know that it is very possible for my ex to transform as well, and come towards me, I feel it in every way you can imagine ... it makes me shiver, because it has gone through so much pain, it has required a lot for me to heal myself, that now I don't see any sense of returning to the relationship and I don't want anymore.
I had an another ex before this one that we talking about... who was the best person in my life, but this relationship didn't leave the platonic realm, and I was at a stage in my life that my homosexuality wasn't yet fully aware for me, so, this was a relationship that I initially built not revealing who I really was !! I revealed it later, and it was a shock for her for two years after that, so she tried to relate to someone else during this 2years period, and then she spoke to me again saying that I was a very important person to her, but at this time I was already with this is my ex from the thread ... the beginning with the previous ex wasn't honest, and I thought it would be a lot to clean up and start again with a clean slate, it was something I did that I am not proud about this past !!
But do you know why she was the best person in my life ?! Because she was acting like a mothe and she is already a mother ... she had a 7 year old daughter at this time ... and she treated me like a daughter, even from a distance she took care of me, above all, she even smothered me with her care !!
But this way I felt her love, I knew she loved me very much !!
She was a scorpio (with a stellium there in her 7th house) aries rising and taurus moon (sitting in my north node).
She woke up in the middle of the night to call me and wake me up to take medicine. She had a time that many times she didn't have to be with me !! She did her best to appreciate the time we had together, even over the phone.
I still feel that I owe her a lot, everything she did for me, even from a distance.
So there can be people who will love you....but if they love you unconditionally YOU may not be able to value it...because in YOUR psyche it's only love if FIRST they are really ''hard to get'' and then they love you. If you are only interested or are only attracted to people who are hard to get and don't value you, then you will still be in that vicious cycle. That is really the bottom line.
It really is up to you to open your eyes and heart to people who may actually like and love you for yourself. But if you believe deeply that this is impossible, then that is something you need professional help with.
LIN
This question of the person loving me as I am is complex, because I feel that when the person loves me for who I am, I think it is better that it remains as friendship. It's strange, I don't have much control over my behavior in this part, it seems that I feel like I don't want to ruin that relationship, that's why I take it to the side of friendship.
Slowly but surely, I'll work on this with myself !!
Thanks a lot again... to reveal this thinks for me!!