When is a good time frame for love for me then?
I know you are probably sick of hearing me say the same things to you, over and over, but I will try and explain something important, because it is necessary for you to understand this, in my opinion.
For you, right now, it is NOT about a good or bad time to meet someone. What is most important for you, is to learn how to present yourself and how to interact, socially and romantically, so you can engage with these college girls successfully.
You have Pluto/Venus/Jupiter in the 1st. The Venus /Jupiter is nice in the first and you need to leads with that nice welcoming, funny, warm energy whenever possible.
However, the Pluto may overshadow that energy and you need to try and reign it in.
If you are coming in hot, being intense and obsessed, looking for that soul mate, looking for that person to help you endure the grief of your father's death, looking for the woman that will cure your virginity, you will continue to be lonely.
College girls want to go out and have fun. They want someone to take them out, have nice dinner and good, fun conversation, share some thoughts and light hearted feelings, and then decide mutually if there will be another date or not.
Are you capable of providing that without seeming awkward, intense, serious and too emotionally needy and obsessive?
Because if you cannot learn to just be fun and interesting and seem like someone a co-ed would like to go to dinner with, then 'timing' of the 7th house won't even matter.
Your elevated Mars in virgo, squaring the 1st house needs to be softened and handled. You may not realize when you are being critical or condescending towards others, out of your own fears or insecurities.
Mars is your male energy force. Mars in Virgo, being squared from the 1st, feels attacked or judged by others, even sometimes when no one is even judging you. So you need to learn to own 'who you are' as a male. Maybe you are more Virgoish than the average male. Maybe you are more of a nerd or a brainiac or a 'do goober' or even more of a 'virgin' than the average college male. So what? Own it and accept it and so will others.
Find someone who treasures those traits.
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