Hi. You should be feeling the Saturn return now, possibly quite strong since Saturn ingressed into Scorpio, but with the first 'peak' (if there is a perceptible peak) still to come.
The Neptune transit was fairly close to the mutable natal configuration earlier this year during its station around 3 degrees Pisces, but the strongest is definitely yet to come. Possibly you will find yourself drawn to a cause of some kind, either through employment, in a voluntary capacity, or through being drawn to someone who is involved with a cause in some way (through their actual life situation and/or through giving time to the cause). But this is not the only this transit could manifest.
This issues around your father comments are just possibilities. It could be connected to your mother's situation, especially if you project Sun or Mars energies onto her. If the transits do come out partly through a relationship of any kind, it needn't be in a bad way. There may be some discomfort involved, but in the end the relationship might be more honest and more intimate as a result of whatever might happen.