Ahahahah! good one x)
I'll give you a big picture, but for more details we'd need to see your chart, Moreover, there is an amazing tool called google ^.^,
Pluto square Venus mostly gives a very passionate nature in your relationships, you love passionately, but you also hate passionately. Your relationships are mostly intense and you can put pressure on your partner.
Pluto square Saturn: Self-will, persistence to the point of ruthlessness. Great commitment to your task and can perform difficult work. Almost obsessive self-restraint. Pluto, here, empowers Saturns traits.
Pluto trine moon: Self-assurance in your strength, charisma, sex-appeal, intuitive insight into people. You still possess a caring nature and does not become cynical of people. Imaginative and creative.
Pluto trine mars: Commitment, determination and passion. an All-or-Nothing personality. Confident in your own talent. Resourceful, persistent and you can keep a cool head during crisis.
Yes, he indeed did. I'm glad I don't have an afflicted pluto or eight house... I happen to also have Jupiter in eight and scorpio, which I find alleviate a lot of the bad that could happen with it. Some people said that having Pluto conj. their N.Node protected them, in a way, from the worst, and I can relate to that since everything I lived could have ended up much worst.
In fact, I'm even proud of these placements. They give me strength and power, even more if I can actually learn to LET GO, which is the purpose of the eight house.
I can look back in my past and accept it. It shaped me into the person I am today, and I have no regrets