A very interesting thread. One online definition of cruelty is:
cruelty [ˈkruːəltɪ]
n pl -ties1. deliberate infliction of pain or suffering
2. the quality or characteristic of being cruel
3. a cruel action
4. (Law)
Law conduct that causes danger to life or limb or a threat to bodily or mental health
Cruelty is acting in a deliberate fashion in a non-consensual manner, inflicting pain or suffering upon another.
I had no intention for this thread to get so personal but that's Ok...
it will help me not be misunderstood...
I consider myself extremely cruel once someone has harmed me, my family or friends deliberately, I will hurt them ten times more than they have.
It's a matter of justice to me.
I have been Cruel and Unforgiving in 4 cases:
1) a family member who hurt me emotionally, not deliberately though, since his weakness caused the break-up of our family.
2) an acquaintance who hated me, never understood what fueled that hatred, I never did anything to harm her, I'm sure of that...
I do my job/lead my life, quietly, never intrude, mind my own business...hell, sometimes I wish I was invisible...then she came along and "poked my eye out"...well in that case, I did not only "poke her eye out, I poked Both of hers"...Everyone asked me why I didn't attend her wedding ceremony
I just revealed her actions and had the evidence to
back me up...she was soo embarrassed ...
she avoids me to this day
3) when I was a teenager I punched my classmate cause he was torturing a cat...don't know his whereabouts today. He's probably married and takes out his hatred on his kids.
4) in my mid-twenties I threatened my friend's husband when my friend came to my house to spend the night because she was beaten up by him. I called the police on him too. I hate that b*****d to this day.
I am cruel after someone has messed with me/family/friends,
there are people who are cruel just for the fun of it, who bully others just for the laughs of it.
If I ever saw these people again, cases 2,3,4
I would feel the need to show them my contempt.
That's the/my cruelty I am talking about.
Some people are more forgiving and just let go...
I can't ...
I was just wondering why,
astro wise.
This can be done verbally or physically. It affects both individuals. The victim will have scars that may alter them and affect them for life.
The perpetrator will suffer from guilt or a deep and painful 'something' that they can't quite remember.
Guilt ...? Yes, but only towards the 1st case I mentioned.
I think the only reason I started this thread is cause I'm looking for some kind of redemption, I'm trying to understand the cause.
In the other 3 cases ... guilt? ...no way...
Either way, there is a flaw in how people relate. It may be difficult to define in a chart. One has to view the chart in relation to the environment of the individual. There are defiinte chart indicators that can point to cruelty, but if an individual has those indicators, yet has never touched the negative energy of it, will it actually manifest in their life?
We hear about cruetly/abuse as being common amongst those who's abuser was abused. If we see someone's chart with a Pluto/Mars hard aspect, we might assume a powerful indicator of cruelty/abuse. I can see that energy assuming many avenues, depending on other indicators/transits etc, AND what the prevalent pressures in life have brought those individuals. That energy can be very negative -
http://theastrologyplace.blogspot.com/2011/09/astrology-of-child-abuse-and-murder.html - or very positive -
Examples of people with Mars-Pluto aspects:
- Hillary Clinton is one of those persons who has Mars afflicted with Pluto and Moon. These are indications for ambition. She also has the ascendant on the midpoint/ - Sportsman have Mars-Pluto aspects often, like Willem van Hanegem and Ruud Gullit (both sextile), Rinus Michels (opposition) and famous international Johan Cruijff (very narrow Mars trine Pluto): the drive to win. (from
http://astropost.blogspot.com/2008/04/mars-in-aspect-with-pluto.html).
A certain aspect between two planets doesn't make us "do" anything. As you said, the energy is there, and there are so many ways one might use it.
So it comes down to the fact that the energy is there. If you nurture it a certain way, it
may manifest that way. Nothing is certain, but there tends to be correlation to this in many articles I've read.
I can be cruel. I know it. I've been verbally cruel, and physically. In my defense, much of it comes with a consensuality. I respect the website and it's guidelines, so won't share more than that. Send me a message if you wish to know more. But mine comes from a Scorpio moon, unaspected except for a wide opposition to my Sun in Taurus. That Scorpio energy is harsh. I have Saturn in Scorpio as well. A harsh task master at best. Both oppose my Sun, the fundamental me. I've said things and done things that are cruel. I'm controlling and have been manipulative. It's part of who I am. I've found an outlet that allows me to express that without hurting anyone.
It's going to happen. We are imperfect in our search for perfection. It's how we handle that, whether we are the perpetrator or victim. I've been on both ends of it. Not anywhere near as severe as many people I know.
I saw one of the links provided on a previous response. The two names at the bottom were very familiiar to me. Paul Bernardo and Karla Homolka. I was living in Canada at the time this all took place. They weren't even an hour away from where I lived at the time.
Again, a caution in finding specific indicators that point to 'cruelty' yet could be a blessing as well.
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