Natal Uranus conjunct Pluto RX in the 11th house and crippling social isolatione

I'm trying to understand why, at this time in my life, I'm so isolated and friendless - apart from one very close friend who lives at a distance and without whose support and understanding I don't know how I would survive. I'm a very social person, I love mixing in groups, but I also know how to connect with people one to one. I have skills in this area and it's because I'm genuinely interested in people. I don't judge or make assumptions about people. I make acquaintances easily but find myself barren at this time and don't know how to start again. People are suspicious of a 53 year old woman who goes everywhere alone hoping to strike up a conversation with someone. They think there's something wrong with you, you become a kind of pariah. I think the clue lies in Pluto and Uranus retrograde in my 11th house. I'm also not long out of an abusive relationship and I don't live in my home town, although I've lived here for 20 years. I feel totally lost now - a stranger in a strange land. Pluto and Uranus RX may provide an explanation for my difficulties and the many crises and losses that I've experienced in relationships but not a solution. If anyone has any suggestions I'm open to listening. Is this about a transit that will pass? I know loneliness is an epidemic and many people like me are suffering, but where's the relief? I'm Aquarius, 18.02.63, 9.25pm, Glasgow, Scotland.