Venus in Scorpio males... Why so intense????

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Temperance

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I need to admit something publicly :andy: ..... I am a Venus in Scorpio male and I am intense!!!

Relationships with a few great woman ended because of that intensity and I've often questioned and regretted my actions and behavior towards them, especially during the breakups.

After much self reflection and chart analysis, I came to realize that my 'intensity' isn't the problem! It's the emotions that I project with intensity that ******* things up. Sometimes I can be intensely needy, other times intensely jealous or insecure or even demanding. What ever emotion I will project it will be intense. These are unattractive emotions to people and especially to those who I would want to pursue a romantic relationship with, now imagine those emotions intensifying!

I believe everyone wants to to feel with intensity, to be intensely passionate, sexy, confident and loving.

Since Venus decided to reside in my 8th House, she's either gonna be sexy and loyal or insecure and needy. I'd rather follow the first choice.
 
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jupiterianguru

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I knew someone if I remember right this was a long time ago she was Venus in Sagittarius Conjunct Pluto this was very hard for me as an individual to handle I am Venus in Sagittarius myself with no aspects to pluto. She did understand my need for adventure and the funny thing is the relationship ended where she wanted complete control over all things in my life. Me not to talk to any girls at all even my counselor who I was visiting on unrelated issues.

I even tried to get her to cheat on me (behind the scenes) to show her how to be more freedom loving by not judging her and letting her get all guilt tripped etc well played lol I didn't say anything about what she did and let her have complete freedom in hopes that would change her by example to tone down or feel guilty for what she did as she didn't apply the standards she applied to me to herself and Sagittarius Venus thinks that is unfair.

None of it worked and when I broke up with her I had to get the police to escort her out she had threatened to kill herself and me and started breaking everything in the house. She had a rope set up to hang herself and had broken the phone so I had to go to the Library. They sent her away to the mental hospital and I haven't seen her sense nor do I want to I moved shortly after and changed my phone number. Ignored all of her online messages etc. I had to she was that crazy.
 
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vitas

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I hate my scorpio placements, you guys don't understand how strongly I hate it.. I have venus conjunct moon in scorpio.
 
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capleo2scorpio

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Yeah, venus in scorp can make someone very intense. After a couple of decades of divorce, when I talk about my scorp mum (sun venus mercury Neptune) to my sag dad who's got venus scorp, he can still sip some beer and look into the distance with anger, resentment, bitterness and love still in his eye thinking about mum. And he has remarried for 20 years. I feel sorry for him.

I went on astro.com and found out my first relationship was a scorp venus pluto. She was intense, literally tried to rip off my shirt and pants the first late night we were in the same room together at camp. I thought it was inappropriate and I wanted to slow things down and make it last forever with her because I always want things that lasts for eternity. I excused myself and walked back to my cabin. Next day, she glares at me when eye contact was made and snapped at me in every conversation. Called me loser, pathetic, toser, everyname possible in front of all our friends. This lasted two weeks. I thought it was funny how upset she was and it meant she cared for me. So the last night of school camp, I asked her to meet me at the beach and she was happy about what happened there.

Funny thing is I also found out my current GF is a venus conjunct pluto like the first and have very similar intense scorpio vibes in the bedroom. my scorp mars cj pluto likes it :smile:
 
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