Ru33erDucky
Banned
Not long ago a friend made a "joke" that is highly disturbing. I made it clear how offensive and unacceptable such a "joke" was. In fact, it wasn't even a "joke"; it was downright malicious and insulting. Afterwards, she carried on laughing at the fact it was highly offensive.
Frankly, it was a joke you just don't make. Like, there is dark humour, racist jokes, sexual humour, whatever, but this "joke" was beyond bad. No one would take it as a joke and would CLEARLY be offended by it. And considering how she would tell me how "special" and how "valuable" our friendship was, I was absolutely beyond confused. I got knifed in the back.
So, after a few days, and a few repeats of this in the past, I said to hell with it and ended the friendship. I was sad; because I thought of her to be a good friend but clearly the way she responded to this just turned my stomach and wasn't evident of someone who valued you as she claimed in the past.
However, on Facebook she'd eventually block me. Now she unblocked me. I don't get to see her regularly but this was odd. I'm curious if she will message me or apologize, or something? What are her motives? Is she going to approach me?
The moon-Venus aspect seems positive; sun-merc; and then ascendant and Jupiter. These aspects are puzzling to me.
Frankly, it was a joke you just don't make. Like, there is dark humour, racist jokes, sexual humour, whatever, but this "joke" was beyond bad. No one would take it as a joke and would CLEARLY be offended by it. And considering how she would tell me how "special" and how "valuable" our friendship was, I was absolutely beyond confused. I got knifed in the back.
So, after a few days, and a few repeats of this in the past, I said to hell with it and ended the friendship. I was sad; because I thought of her to be a good friend but clearly the way she responded to this just turned my stomach and wasn't evident of someone who valued you as she claimed in the past.
However, on Facebook she'd eventually block me. Now she unblocked me. I don't get to see her regularly but this was odd. I'm curious if she will message me or apologize, or something? What are her motives? Is she going to approach me?
The moon-Venus aspect seems positive; sun-merc; and then ascendant and Jupiter. These aspects are puzzling to me.