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This should be aimed at something though

Thing is beauty shouldn't be hated. Anything that isn't exactly symmetrical or with the best type of genes inherited shouldn't be hated either because people can well compensate in a ton of other areas when they don't fit in the "example of modern standard of beauty" tag. And so this does not make them undesirable human beings. Something should be done with the "go for the cover, don't look any further" and the throwaway society prototype (created how? let s ask ourselves)

In fact to understand why people prefer a good physical aspect you should look, first, into it biologically. You shouldn't direct so much hate towards something encoded genetically. But you do have a point when it comes to obsessions and unhealthy standards, the kind we tend to lock ourselves into and create really bad scenarios. We have to work with tolerance and someone has to remind us all the time about balance as we tend to over-do it or not do anything at all. Western-wise, the members with a good, well worked, tall physique and slimmer on the girls side, no bad facial/skin/weight problems and so on indicate not only a healthy human being but someone who takes care and respects themselves. This is, by default, a major factor in selecting your partner in many animal species on this earth. Coming from mid. Europe, if you think Americans have a thing for dressing up and kind of sometimes bad physical standards (something I've never noticed) go to France, Italy... lol. What you should have is some kind of "oh my god we have to do something" reaction when no fantasy but numbers tell you that more than one-third (34.9% or 78.6 million) of U.S. adults are obese and the diabetes...

And yet you are free to be different, you don't need to adhere to the "top show magazines and tv channels with stars telling you the latest trends" and you will be even happier. No one will burn you at the stake for that anymore, if you are just a tiny bit smarter. Or unless you're in Turkey or North Korea, right now, heh
#justworldproblems

Have you read about South Korea's 18 birthday plastic surgery? This is one of the most disturbing things I've seen as far as the western beauty standards propaganda is involved. In fact many Asians will use that special adhesive so that they "hide" their double-eyelids. There was a funny picture with an almost naked long haired blonde, kind of "big sized", in front of the mirror doing the duck face, and the comment below were like "Our grand-children in 50 years while surfing Facebook" or "What if our grand-grand kids will look at our photos like we look at those old black and white ones of our parents and will say *omg so beautiful look at them so natural, only some make-up not plastic surgery like us these days*".
Do you also remember those comics and books or cartoons about people not being able to go outside without wearing gas masks due to pollution? SF scenarios haha........ not anymore. Look into the Beijing problem for instance or killer-smogs.

Waybread also got to it from a nice perspective... we also feel the peer-pressure and give in to it, it has to do a lot with education, culture... starts from family and being a rational human being. But I have a feeling most try to "think" today with their smartphones rather than with their brains

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This should be aimed at something though

Thing is beauty shouldn't be hated. Anything that isn't exactly symmetrical or with the best type of genes inherited shouldn't be hated either because people can well compensate in a ton of other areas when they don't fit in the "example of modern standard of beauty" tag. And so this does not make them undesirable human beings. Something should be done with the "go for the cover, don't look any further" and the throwaway society prototype (created how? let s ask ourselves)

In fact to understand why people prefer a good physical aspect you should look, first, into it biologically. You shouldn't direct so much hate towards something encoded genetically. But you do have a point when it comes to obsessions and unhealthy standards, the kind we tend to lock ourselves into and create really bad scenarios. We have to work with tolerance and someone has to remind us all the time about balance as we tend to over-do it or not do anything at all. Western-wise, the members with a good, well worked, tall physique and slimmer on the girls side, no bad facial/skin/weight problems and so on indicate not only a healthy human being but someone who takes care and respects themselves. This is, by default, a major factor in selecting your partner in many animal species on this earth. Coming from mid. Europe, if you think Americans have a thing for dressing up and kind of sometimes bad physical standards (something I've never noticed) go to France, Italy... lol. What you should have is some kind of "oh my god we have to do something" reaction when no fantasy but numbers tell you that more than one-third (34.9% or 78.6 million) of U.S. adults are obese and the diabetes...

And yet you are free to be different, you don't need to adhere to the "top show magazines and tv channels with stars telling you the latest trends" and you will be even happier. No one will burn you at the stake for that anymore, if you are just a tiny bit smarter. Or unless you're in Turkey or North Korea, right now, heh
#justworldproblems

Have you read about South Korea's 18 birthday plastic surgery? This is one of the most disturbing things I've seen as far as the western beauty standards propaganda is involved. In fact many Asians will use that special adhesive so that they "hide" their double-eyelids. There was a funny picture with an almost naked long haired blonde, kind of "big sized", in front of the mirror doing the duck face, and the comment below were like "Our grand-children in 50 years while surfing Facebook" or "What if our grand-grand kids will look at our photos like we look at those old black and white ones of our parents and will say *omg so beautiful look at them so natural, only some make-up not plastic surgery like us these days*".
Do you also remember those comics and books or cartoons about people not being able to go outside without wearing gas masks due to pollution? SF scenarios haha........ not anymore. Look into the Beijing problem for instance or killer-smogs.

Waybread also got to it from a nice perspective... we also feel the peer-pressure and give in to it, it has to do a lot with education, culture... starts from family and being a rational human being. But I have a feeling most try to "think" today with their smartphones rather than with their brains
The concept of beauty is never going to go away - especially now. I feel bad for teenagers and young women now who are going to school and feel like they have to have a full face of makeup and perfect hair, blah blah blah. The youth of the world now is selfie obsessed to the point where they don't even take photos anymore without slapping a filter on the photo before uploading it to whatever social media platform of their choosing. Hell, Samsung phones even come with the filter option built in - my friend chose some skinny face option one day to take a photo and it gave us this elongated alien face. One of my friends has a sister from his father's second marriage and she is 18 - whenever she takes a photo with anyone she uses Snapchat so she has a filter on and then saves it and uploads it to Facebook.

Eyelid surgery has been a thing in Asia for a long time. I remember about a decade ago Su-chin Park did an interview regarding eyelid surgery being the number one plastic surgery in Asia. I read something recently where teenage girls are electing for vaginal surgery because they don't like the way theirs looks. This is something that was typically reserved for women who have had children and their lady bits were mangled in the process, but now we have women who just don't like the way their labia hangs or they have a droopy lip so they want surgery. But this is the society we live in! The society of people injecting their faces with botox, fillers, whatever. I remember being told by someone a month before I was married that I should get some fillers in my face because I looked sunken in in my cheeks. Why the hell would I want to look like a puffer fish version of myself on my wedding day? But people do it.

I do agree that beauty in the US tends to be slightly different than in Europe. But I also think it's generational. I have noticed that women in the UK tend to wear more makeup than women in the NY metro area. I can't speak for the west coast but based on what I see on tv, there seems to be a lot of pressure for beauty and the "perfect body." There is a lot of pressure like that in NYC, but I think it's all relative. In Europe, I've noticed women are a bit more natural in terms of putting on makeup and doing their hair. I once was told by a French woman that I looked American because I had highlighted hair and long eyelashes. She said it much ruder, but I got the point; to her I didn't meet her standard of beauty.

Basically, standard of beauty is determined by your immediate culture and surroundings. Men and women compare themselves to who they are around, so your expectations of attractiveness will shift depending on where you live and who you associate with. Have you ever noticed that groups of friends tend to be around the same size in terms of weight? Or how friends tend to dress similarly, etc.

I could probably go on, but you get the point!
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So many people ask if they look beautiful or if they look good enough for attention. Why do people care so much honestly, it's just ridiculous.
Like just love yourself for who you are "beauty is in the eye of the beholder". Some people may think so called gingers aren't beautiful but I'm going to still rock my red hair. Love yourself people, truly
What a question. What's the big del about beauty in the world? Most people care about it.
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What a question. What's the big del about beauty in the world? Most people care about it.
Like I never heard that answer from anybody before. Beauty has just been perverted in today's age. I made this thread to see different people's opinions on beauty as well as give my own views.
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Yeah I didn't call you dumb I call you stupid because the comment you said surprise me. I never encounter someone who had those kind of views before. You had me dying when you corrected my spelling though all I could think was virgo moon. My sister has that same placement too, she always use to call me sloppy, trifinly(her favorite word) or stupid. I think it's because I have a pisces moon though so I really could guess that's why she was extremely critical of me.
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Yeah I didn't call you dumb I call you stupid because the comment you said surprise me. I never encounter someone who had those kind of views before. You had me dying when you corrected my spelling though all I could think was virgo moon. My sister has that same placement too, she always use to call me sloppy, trifinly(her favorite word) or stupid. I think it's because I have a pisces moon though so I really could guess that's why she was extremely critical of me.
I am a Virgo Moon. Dumb is a synonym of stupid, anyway.
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Like I never heard that answer from anybody before. Beauty has just been perverted in today's age. I made this thread to see different people's opinions on beauty as well as give my own views.
Ok. I agree about that part of perverted beauty.
In my oppinion you can look as M. Monroe and suck as a person. and then you're ugly. No make up will help to cover ugly soul. But I have to admit that looks still plays a parrt at choosing a partner. But not the mayor role. When you meet someone the first impression is by a look, second when that person opens he's mouth and depending on what is coming from it, you decide (ugly/pretty). Looks is also important at finding job especially a carrier when you are seen by people. We live in this world and can't simply ignore it's rules and stop shaving, washing, looking after hygiene and going to dentist.
I realsed this later, after i had my whole face covered in piercing and body with tattoo's. And so on

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Ok. I agree about that part of perverted beauty.
In my oppinion you can look as M. Monroe and suck as a person. and then you're ugly. No make up will help to cover ugly soul. But I have to admit that looks still plays a parrt at choosing a partner. But not the mayor role. When you meet someone the first impression is by a look, second when that person opens he's mouth and depending on what is coming from it, you decide (ugly/pretty). Looks is also important at finding job especially a carrier when you are seen by people. We live in this world and can't simply ignore it's rules and stop shaving, washing, looking after hygiene and going to dentist.
I realsed this later, after i had my whole face covered in piercing and body with tattoo's. And so on
Lol I never said you don't have to be presentable or stop caring about your hygine. Just don't become obsessed with your appearance to the point of it not being healthy.
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I am a Virgo Moon. Dumb is a synonym of stupid, anyway.
Lol ok Virgo moon I get it already
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Lol I never said you don't have to be presentable or stop caring about your hygine. Just don't become obsessed with your appearance to the point of it not being healthy.
But still people do, and get an ED
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But still people do, and get an ED
Yeah your right and it's sad
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Yeah your right and it's sad
I had been in psycholy lectures and talked with a lot of people who had a disturbed body image, also myself had this issue at one part of my life. Media scrues us a lot. People suffers from beauty. I've seen tubes put into the stomach for my dear person, because she was not able to eat anymore and stll thought that she's fat and ugly. I met girls who cannot get pregnant and few are still not able because of these disorders. I feel sorry for all who let others dictate how should they look. I hope to spare my child from it or at least give her tools to find her way into selfconfidence
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I had been in psycholy lectures and talked with a lot of people who had a disturbed body image, also myself had this issue at one part of my life. Media scrues us a lot. People suffers from beauty. I've seen tubes put into the stomach for my dear person, because she was not able to eat anymore and stll thought that she's fat and ugly. I met girls who cannot get pregnant and few are still not able because of these disorders. I feel sorry for all who let others dictate how should they look. I hope to spare my child from it or at least give her tools to find her way into selfconfidence
It makes me sick that people even go through eating disorders in the first place. The first thing you could do with your child is to let them be aware.
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It makes me sick that people even go through eating disorders in the first place. The first thing you could do with your child is to let them be aware.
And a lot of people to. I'm terified with lot of issues that are not brought to people, because no one wants to see an ugly true. Why there is no info in schools, awareness doesn't play a big part... Everyone should make an input in those social problems. At least not to be afraid to educate people around...
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And a lot of people to. I'm terified with lot of issues that are not brought to people, because no one wants to see an ugly true. Why there is no info in schools, awareness doesn't play a big part... Everyone should make an input in those social problems. At least not to be afraid to educate people around...
Everyone is wearing rose-colored glasses. The higher in demand is not going to let this truth go to the school systems, are you crazy. They don't want what they got going on to be destroy.
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Beauty is no more perverted now than it was 1,000 years ago. The reality is that beauty is a part of life and you can't escape it. What is constitutes as beautiful by society's standards will constantly change, but beauty will always matter to an extent. You have 3 seconds to make a first impression. It ***** to hear that, but it is true. People will complain that they don't want to be judged for their appearance (tattoos, piercings, being overweight, having bad teeth, whatever) but that is what people initially judge you on. Just like with animals - they will not mate with another animal if they feel they are weak or will not effectively continue to advance the particular specie.

I can't really say how dating has changed since the internet, since I am 34 and the internet has been around my entire dating existence, but I do think that things like online dating tend to lean towards the superficial. It's like shopping online for clothes and then you get the item and put it on and it doesn't look anything like you expected it would when you saw on it on the 5'10 size 2 model. Clearly it does work since people get married from it, but apps like Tinder and Grinder where you are basically swiping left or right from a 3 second look at someone's photo just exacerbates the superficiality of modern dating.

And yes, it is true that looks only get you so far, but statistically tall good looking men are paid more than short fat men and will more than likely be in higher positions of power. I know it doesn't sound fair, because it's not and guess what - life is not fair!

Also, as a side note, eating disorders are not new either. I think we have more education around eating disorders now than there are 50 years ago when people would legitimately die from the disease because no one even recognised them as such.
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Everyone is wearing rose-colored glasses. The higher in demand is not going to let this truth go to the school systems, are you crazy. They don't want what they got going on to be destroy.
In a part yes. The other side: it takes money. Education system need to put investments into teachers, councelors, train them to be qualified to talk about these topics in school. there's a lot more things that has a need to be educated about (like STD, depression, abuse, even breastfeeding (in our country it sounds like magic)). It get's ugly... I feel sad that i have no power to change things. But at least i try in my circle...
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Beauty is no more perverted now than it was 1,000 years ago. The reality is that beauty is a part of life and you can't escape it. What is constitutes as beautiful by society's standards will constantly change, but beauty will always matter to an extent. You have 3 seconds to make a first impression. It ***** to hear that, but it is true. People will complain that they don't want to be judged for their appearance (tattoos, piercings, being overweight, having bad teeth, whatever) but that is what people initially judge you on. Just like with animals - they will not mate with another animal if they feel they are weak or will not effectively continue to advance the particular specie.

I can't really say how dating has changed since the internet, since I am 34 and the internet has been around my entire dating existence, but I do think that things like online dating tend to lean towards the superficial. It's like shopping online for clothes and then you get the item and put it on and it doesn't look anything like you expected it would when you saw on it on the 5'10 size 2 model. Clearly it does work since people get married from it, but apps like Tinder and Grinder where you are basically swiping left or right from a 3 second look at someone's photo just exacerbates the superficiality of modern dating.

And yes, it is true that looks only get you so far, but statistically tall good looking men are paid more than short fat men and will more than likely be in higher positions of power. I know it doesn't sound fair, because it's not and guess what - life is not fair!

Also, as a side note, eating disorders are not new either. I think we have more education around eating disorders now than there are 50 years ago when people would legitimately die from the disease because no one even recognised them as such.
Agree.
So what can we take out of this topic? Is there any meaning to discuss these things, if we already know how this works?
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Agree.
So what can we take out of this topic? Is there any meaning to discuss these things, if we already know how this works?
I think we are free to discuss things as much as we want to. Your view may be different than mine and so forth. These are opinions and theories and not hard fact. You can't say that one's perception of life is the same as another's. Maybe someone else feels differently about the topic. Opinions are like standard of beauty -everyone's will be different. What I find attractive you may not. But beyond the beauty aspect, everyone is judged every day, regardless of whether they want to be or not. Think about it - just like people don't want to be judged of being less attractive but then we have people who are less attractive judging people who are more attractive and calling them superficial.

So because a woman is born drop dead gorgeous and takes pride in her appearance she should be judged negatively by someone who may not be as physically attractive and care about putting emphasis on her looks? It sounds hypocritical to me.
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To be honest, I don't think anyone's truly ugly; people just choose lifestyles that make them ugly.

If people actually ate healthy, exercised, cleaned themselves regularly, did some research on on what's trendy to wear, and groomed themselves, I can guarantee that the vast majority of people would all look really damnn good despite their genes or what the media has to say.

It's not that the nerdy girl is ugly, it's that she wears her hair in a stupid style and has zero sense for what clothes look nice. All she wears is sweats and a t-shirt.

It's not that the fat girl is ugly, it's that she eats a ton of unhealthy food and you can see it affecting her body in a negative way.
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To be honest, I don't think anyone's truly ugly; people just choose lifestyles that make them ugly.

If people actually ate healthy, exercised, cleaned themselves regularly, did some research on on what's trendy to wear, and groomed themselves, I can guarantee that the vast majority of people would all look really damnn good despite their genes or what the media has to say.

It's not that the nerdy girl is ugly, it's that she wears her hair in a stupid style and has zero sense for what clothes look nice. All she wears is sweats and a t-shirt.

It's not that the fat girl is ugly, it's that she eats a ton of unhealthy food and you can see it affecting her body in a negative way.
You have a good point, never really thought of it like that.
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