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Unread 08-20-2019, 05:35 AM
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Too much pluto in a relationship?

I met this guy recently, years after my ex.

His pluto opposites my moon, and my pluto contra parallels his sun and venus.

Now I know there are mixed opinions about contra parallels and parallels.

But to top it off we have a venus conjunct pluto in our composite chart!!

I want to block him. The energy is too heavy for me. We happened to sit in the same table before he started talking to me. Since then, he can't stop being around me.

He's tried to psychoanalyze me and told me : "Everytime you leave I feel like a part of me leaves with you." He's also seems to be possessive. He tries to get me alone a lot and begs to hold me, touch my hair etc.

He scares me. Anyone with similar experience or advice?

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Unread 08-20-2019, 06:18 AM
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I met this guy recently, years after my ex.

His pluto opposites my moon, and my pluto contra parallels his sun and venus.

Now I know there are mixed opinions about contra parallels and parallels.

But to top it off we have a venus conjunct pluto in our composite chart!!

I want to block him. The energy is too heavy for me. We happened to sit in the same table before he started talking to me. Since then, he can't stop being around me.

He's tried to psychoanalyze me and told me : "Everytime you leave I feel like a part of me leaves with you." He's also seems to be possessive. He tries to get me alone a lot and begs to hold me, touch my hair etc.

He scares me. Anyone with similar experience or advice?
Can you post the composite? And yeah, if you’re not together, the words you’ve relayed cross the line...
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Unread 08-20-2019, 07:51 AM
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Re: Too much pluto in a relationship?

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Originally Posted by love-thinking View Post
I met this guy recently, years after my ex.

His pluto opposites my moon, and my pluto contra parallels his sun and venus.

Now I know there are mixed opinions about contra parallels and parallels.

But to top it off we have a venus conjunct pluto in our composite chart!!

I want to block him. The energy is too heavy for me. We happened to sit in the same table before he started talking to me. Since then, he can't stop being around me.

He's tried to psychoanalyze me and told me : "Everytime you leave I feel like a part of me leaves with you." He's also seems to be possessive. He tries to get me alone a lot and begs to hold me, touch my hair etc


He scares me. Anyone with similar experience or advice?
Pluto is compelling and possessive. Post the synastry chart as well please.
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Unread 08-21-2019, 07:14 PM
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Re: Too much pluto in a relationship?

horoscope-synastry-chart8-700__astroseek-2-1-1996_00-07_p_4-9-1995_12-00.jpg

Here is the synastry.
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Unread 08-21-2019, 07:32 PM
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Re: Too much pluto in a relationship?

You have similar outer planets, so both of you have Uranus/neptune conjunct that mars/mercury. Also, both Saturns opposing the sun/venus, both plutos opposing moon.
In this case the outer planets become almost personal planets, they are activated and their energy will be felt. And they are heavy.
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Unread 08-22-2019, 12:41 AM
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Re: Too much pluto in a relationship?

Gently tell him he makes you uncomfortable and you prefer to be left alone.
Don't be apologetic about it.
If he receives this news poorly, stop being genteel.

If someone is invading your space, you have a responsibility to yourself to speak up.

If he's psycho, get a restraining order.
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