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Unread 05-04-2018, 07:23 AM
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That's a pity. You never had sex?
Could you post your natal chart?
What's going on with your 8th H?

Honestly I am very tired of listening to others trying to make Saturn look less shitty than he really is.
I think people try to make it sound better in order for others to not freak out. The worst thing with Saturn is not only that it doesn't reward no matter what, nor the depression.. but the fact that the person keeps waiting forever because Saturn doesn't make you mature/experienced in that area.. that's so far from truth.. In reality Saturn kills every opportunity making sure that you'll stay immatured and inexperienced in that area. You keep waiting forever until you realise it's never going to happen, no matter how many obstacles you overcome there will always appear more and more.. That is Saturn.


Yep, never. I tried and i had possibilities but it didn't felt right or safe. Nowadays i feel actually hate if someone is trying to come too close to me. I don't recall when it started but this feeling is very strong and will stop me to develop relationship. Still i would like to be with someone. And I'm very sexual. My 7&8 are empty..maybe thats part of the problem. I agree with Saturn..its so malevic. Not a great teacher as it been labeled nowadays. Here is my chart. Its with progression, i hope it dosen't matter.


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Unread 05-04-2018, 09:53 AM
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Yes here it is please let me know your thoughts!!
Wow! your natal planets are all concentrated in relationship houses (5th,7th and 8th) Jupiter is on the 5th H cusp same goes for your Sun, Venus and Mars conjuct your DSC! No wonder you have lots of sex and relationships! So I guess the remedy to 8th H Saturn is Jupiter in the 5th H.. Although your Sun, Venus,Mars conjuct Neptune and Uranus must play an important role too.
How does Saturn square Moon play out in your case? Do you happen to need deeper connection (Saturn in 8th H) than what you get (5th H Moon)? Although you Moon is in Scorpio too. I am really curious to know more about you and how you feel about sex/intimacy relationships.
Uranus and Neptune in conjuction with Venus all in 7th H house is like you have double Uranus and Neptune in there.
Are you easily bired after Neptune's effect is gone?
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Unread 05-04-2018, 11:29 AM
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Yep, never. I tried and i had possibilities but it didn't felt right or safe. Nowadays i feel actually hate if someone is trying to come too close to me. I don't recall when it started but this feeling is very strong and will stop me to develop relationship. Still i would like to be with someone. And I'm very sexual. My 7&8 are empty..maybe thats part of the problem. I agree with Saturn..its so malevic. Not a great teacher as it been labeled nowadays. Here is my chart. Its with progression, i hope it dosen't matter.
Honestly it is not Saturn in your case.
The Mars square Satutn is 6 orbs. My aunt has Sun,Venus and Mars all in Virgo square Saturn in Sag. She had sex whrn she was 19teen. It was horrible for her since she had no sexuak appetite till her 27! and she fell in love for thr first time at 29 yo! So saturn definately delays and makes someone cold. She literally told me that she felt for the first time in her life that she liked a hug (from the one she fell in love with!) don't get me wrong she liked others a lot but felt nothing. The absence of water in her chart must be the problem.

Now as an Aqua 8th H with Saturn in it..
And an Uranus opposite Sun and ASC
I CAN TOTALLY GET THE FEELING YOU ARE DESCRIBING 110%
It is driving me crazy since I have so much water (Sun,Mercury, ASc in Cancer, Pisces Moon) fire (Leo Venus, Mars and Jupiter squared by Pluto!) And still.. I din't like being touched or getting too close with someone (physically) even when I want it.
It doesn't make sense.
It is your Aqua Moon and Venus-Uranus aspect. Generally Venus in Aqua people have a hard time with love. Venus in hard aspect to Uranus is even more intense in my opinion. Aqua is the most detached and cold sign. I am wondering if Jupiter that is also squaring your Venus is amplifying the Uranus effect making it even harder for you to open up. Venus in Sag tends to be a bit problematic too but hobestly I've seen people who have no difficult aspects or placements except of Venus in Aqua or Venus Uranus hard aspect and it was enough for them to have never experience sex but I am talking about girls exclusively. Maybe Mars in Aqua or Mars/Uranus aspect in a man's chart has the same effect?

Your Saturn is in Libra.. in 2nd H.
It doesn't affect your 8th H
But for me it is like Saturn is in Scorpio since your progressive Saturn has been in Scorpio since a young age for you. Pluto rules Scorpio and the 8th H so it is quite similar to Saturn being in 8th H but I don't feel that it is strong enough by itself. So I am insisting that the Venus square Uranus and Jupiter is the reason and the feelings you describe are Uranian.
Moon in Aqua is quite a bad sign for Moon too and it definately adds something to the mix but again it is not enough by itself.

In a few years your progressive Mars and Venus will conjuct your natal SUn! Don't lose hope! it may bring something good
I know you may feel that it is too late but you may actually enjoy it. Even if it doesn't bring a relationship it will definately bring something good! It is a very nice aspect. my friend has had this aspect early in her life and she found a guy she relly likes and he kind of saver her tbh. It lasts a few years too! Also your progressive Moon squares natal Moon and then natal Sun while trines Mercury. If Moon return brought someone you had feelings for maybe this square will bring someone too but I am nit sure if it will be simething strong or long lasting. Progressive Venus and Mars though are really nice!
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Unread 05-04-2018, 04:07 PM
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Wow! your natal planets are all concentrated in relationship houses (5th,7th and 8th) Jupiter is on the 5th H cusp same goes for your Sun, Venus and Mars conjuct your DSC! No wonder you have lots of sex and relationships! So I guess the remedy to 8th H Saturn is Jupiter in the 5th H.. Although your Sun, Venus,Mars conjuct Neptune and Uranus must play an important role too.
How does Saturn square Moon play out in your case? Do you happen to need deeper connection (Saturn in 8th H) than what you get (5th H Moon)? Although you Moon is in Scorpio too. I am really curious to know more about you and how you feel about sex/intimacy relationships.
Uranus and Neptune in conjuction with Venus all in 7th H house is like you have double Uranus and Neptune in there.
Are you easily bired after Neptune's effect is gone?
Saturn square Moon plays out in the relationship I had with my mother she was cold emotionally towards me didn't show much affections so I've had to learn and still learning about the importance of intimacy through relationships with others and I guess I carry it on by being emotionally cold and closed off at times.
I'm a deep person and I like to have deep conversations example one thing I hate is small talk and talking about trivial things with people but I have to do it now in my career.
I can have casual sex and not become attached. I still feel awkward about intimate relationships sometimes because I need a lot of space and privacy but being in this 7 year relationship helped me overcome a lot of what was lacking from my mother.
Yes I am easily bored I think I have venus conjunct Uranus which I read was a heartbreaker aspect after i'm not interested anymore (or maybe when the rose colored glasses come off -Neptune) that's it. Its easy for me to move on from relationships
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Unread 06-07-2018, 06:57 PM
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Re: Are all Cancer Ascendant doom to marry later in life?

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I'm also really surprised. Are you sure you're a Cancer Ascendant?
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Unread 06-07-2018, 08:34 PM
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Cancer is crazier than Aries in an aggressive way tbh. People think cancer, pastel colors, the softy. When really cancer was kicked into the sky for trying to fight Hercules by pinching his toes. Cancer may be small but they can be ballsy. I have my Sun and A.C. ruler (jupiter) in Pisces and I go by Pisces [Neptune in the first as my only non luminary in the first also helps put Pisces on top].

I'm not a softy, I'm not spineless and not all Pisces are guppies. We can be moody as hell, like a storm even. Drown you and your whole family in a rage of sea water. [Note that I don't much show or relate to sag but cap and Saturn play a big part of my chart along with Pisces]. Even so I'm not surprised that jess can be detached even with water in their chart (I can say that as a Pisces dominant I can't get off to strangers tho).

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Unread 06-07-2018, 11:46 PM
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Re: Are all Cancer Ascendant doom to marry later in life?

There is a rule of thumb in the Vedic astrology that Mercury expedites matters and Saturn delays them.
When we take Cancer ascendant in Vedic astrology it could be either Cancer ascendant in western astrology or it could be Leo ascendant.
Both for Cancer and Leo the seventh house will have a sign of Saturn (Capricorn or Aquarius). Therefore the house will be deemed to have influence of Saturn and marital matters will be delayed.
This is a general rule but there will be exceptions if other planets cast a favourable influence on the seventh house or its owner. Therefore occasions will arise when a Cancer or Leo will get married early.
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Unread 06-09-2018, 09:45 AM
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I have Gemini Ascendant in vedic astrology.
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Unread 06-09-2018, 02:16 PM
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I have Gemini Ascendant in vedic astrology.
Mine may be a Scorpio A.C. in Vedic astrology it's still on the air.
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Unread 06-11-2018, 03:53 PM
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Where is her Saturn and in what sign?
Her saturn is capricorn in the 7th house.
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Unread 06-11-2018, 07:11 PM
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I don't have a Cancer ASC, but I have a Cancer DSC with Saturn on the cusp of my 6/7 houses (more in the 7th), never married, & I feel like the same applies for us too. Saturn rules my Capricorn ASC, & Cancer rules my 1st house of Aquarius where my Moon is.

Relationships (which I didn't have a lot of) were very short-lived, or ended before they even started. The last one was very tough & heartbreaking for me because I really liked him.

So to me, Cancer DSC & Saturn in Cancer is a real b***h & pain in the a**.
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Re: Are all Cancer Ascendant doom to marry later in life?

All? Yikes, haven't met all Cancer ascendants, but I can say that no, its most likely not true.


The 7th would be ruled by Saturn, so its important to find out what the old nasty character is doing in your chart. Is he In-sect? Dignified? Debilitated? Which house is he in? What aspects does he make? If he's not in Capricorn or Aquarius (his home signs), what's the dispositor doing? What aspects does said dispositor make and from which house etc, etc.

Its a very complicated process. But I'm pretty sure not all Cancer ascendants are doomed.

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Unread 06-15-2018, 03:16 AM
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Re: Are all Cancer Ascendant doom to marry later in life?

My cousin had a Cancer AC and married his early 20ís. He did fine.

There are a lot of celebs with Cancer rising who married young. So I donít think it hurts you in that way.

I have a Virgo AC. When I was in my early 20ís, I was told by an expensive professional astrologer that Iíd marry within a couple years. That didnít happen. I donít think marriage is for sure possible to predict either way. We may have certain tendencies associated with our charts but how they play out isnít for certain.
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Unread 02-12-2019, 03:54 AM
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I am a Cancer ASC like you, Saturn is in my 8th H in Aqua too which I find very problematic. I have never been intimate with anyone (it doesn't have to do with my family or environment like for example being religious, waiting for marriage etc.. majority of people in my country have sex before they turn 20). I have Pluto in 5th H too (squaring Mars and Venus instead of Saturn).
I am wondering if Uranus, Neptune and North Node are in your 7th H too? Mines are right on the 7th H cusp (Uranus and Neptune) and North Node just in 7th H without making aspects with any planets other than Mercury in 1st H.

Well to be honest I know just 2 people with Cancer ASC. One is about 46 (maybe a little more) and the other one about 34-37. The first one being a woman the second one being a man. None of them have been married or have kids. I think both of them didn't even have sex. The man is VERY attractive which was a SHOCK. I mean he could be a model.. that attractive.. Unfortunately I don't remember much else about their charts, I was younger when I checked them and didn't know much at that time (astrology wise).

To be honest (even if you don't have Uranus, Neptune or North Node in 7th H) A Capricorn DSC, Saturn as the lord of the 7th H in 7th or even worse in 8th H in detached non personal Aqua is a sure failure mix in my honest and very humble opinion. I don't want marriage or family myself but I wanted to have sex when I was a bit younger (15teen to 21 yo) with a stable partner. No matter how much in love I was no matter how good and patient the guy was no matter how much someone turned me on or how much I needed sex or hugs or anything like that I could never just do it.. I shoyld have tried to force myself because by the time I understood that the problem was mine it was a bit too late. When I was 16teen I thought "well maybe it is too early even if I want to, it would be better if I waited a little bit longer" same thing when I was 19teen.. when then I became 22 and lost interest in relationships (because I understood that they are not as beautiful as I imagined them to be since I didn't consider the practical side of ithem) it was a HUGE mistake that I didn't do it earlier.. I was always being too careful and logical ignoring my feelings believing that love is a sure thing and that is better to wait until a bit later.. Nope! Not at all.. Now being 27 having a shitty life the last years full of problems and seeing relationships as a burden I know I won't have any (which means no sex too) especially since I am not interested in having family/marriage. So there is no point in having my first one in such an age. And the older you get it gets more difficult. I mean Saturn is supposed to be a mature planet but I find him to be retarded. Being mature doesn't mean waiting to do things when you are too old to do them or feeling like you are starving for something (in this case intimate relationships) for years until you can have a bite that will dissapoint you anyway in the end. Of course anyone could have sex at their 60s or 70s or 80s if they want to.. but I don't know anyone like that. It just didn't happen to them.

I have found that Nodes in 1st/7th and 4th/10th houses are very common for people who have not been married in their life.
Also Saturn in 7tH or DSc in Capricorn too.
There is no guarantee when it comes to relationships. But happy with a 7th H Capricorn? Nope I don't think so. Capricorn is not about being happy it's about being responsible I think it will feel like a burden more than anything else.
Tbh.. I don't think that we really need to wait until first Saturn Return I think that Capricorn DSC itself prevents you from having relationships when it is normal to have one (meaning younger) and when you want it. For me that is ridiculous it just feels like Capricorn DSC were just unlucky to have that DSC. If it wasn't we wouldn't feel the need in the first place or we would feel it after our first Saturn Return. There is a reason Saturn is considered malefic. Whatever planet Saturn touches in my chart it just get so bad and slow and painful without any actual reason behind it.
And honestly "the reward in the end" thing is just b******* to consol people OR for some weird reason my natal chart especially has a huge problem with Saturn transits progression and whatever. I don't know anymore. My best advice is that you have to force yourself.. otherwise it will be too late. In my opinion nothing will magically happen after Saturn Return when it comes to relationships I mean. Saturn return may bring deaths literal ones or not or make our deepest fears (8th H) become reality.
Also Saturn with Saturn in 8th H you have to expect a poor husband or at the best a wealthy one who will be stingy.

And I just remembered a girl a year younger than me who has a Cancer ASC and a Saturn in 8th H too. She also didn't have any relationships at all nor sex and the weird thing is that her 7th H is not f*cked up like mine. She also has more extovert signs than me like Aries Moon.

There are a lot and I mean a LOT people who have not find a partner. We gorw up believing relationships are a standard thing to happen and they kind of come so naturally that it is a shock for some when they realise that it is not the truth.
As far as my experience , I have faced exactly the same situation.Saturn is in my 8th house and I have a cancer asc horoscope.I was a kind of guy who wanted to hhave an intimate relation as soon as k was 14 years old and the idea of now being 25 and still single,I mean it ***** seriously, its not like I miss the physical relation but I miss company and its like the same situation for the past 10 years now....this has bothered me more than anything till now.Any advices for my situation?
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I'm a Cancer ASC, turning 39 in 2 days and never had a wife, rarely a GF and finds obtaining and keeping a relationship inaccessible and unobtainable. This is true if the sun or moon sign is Aquarius, ruled by the planetary "loner" Saturn. I admit many (but not all) Cancer ASC people are going to remain bachelors.
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or , I have the same ruling planets: Uranus and Saturn. I see the Cancer rising. Aries in the MC and Venus was her name!
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Unread 02-13-2019, 04:56 PM
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Re: Are all Cancer Ascendant doom to marry later in life?

Gee, I have a Cancer ascendant and didn't get married until the ripe old age of 18. Oh, did I mention my Aquarius Sun?

Funny how these One'Size-Fits-All, Wham-Bang astrological prediction methods always seem to fail at the first challenge. Actually learning to read a chart is sooo hard.

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Unread 02-14-2019, 04:32 PM
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I'm a Cancer ASC, turning 39 in 2 days and never had a wife, rarely a GF and finds obtaining and keeping a relationship inaccessible and unobtainable. This is true if the sun or moon sign is Aquarius, ruled by the planetary "loner" Saturn. I admit many (but not all) Cancer ASC people are going to remain bachelors.
That's not true actually.
Not all Cancer ASCs are going to remain alone.

It's the ones born in the Cap generation whose whose Uranus and/or Neptune are in their 7th H, Saturn (in Cap or Aqua) is in their 8th H and Pluto in their 5th H.

I can't even count how many times I've seen this combo and probably it's not a coincidence, I have it myself.

Pluto in the 5th H gets 5th H matters such as romance, flirt, flings and casual sex very seriously (same goes for Saturn in 5th H) because Pluto needs depth which is kind of contradictive of what this house represents.

Uranus and Neptune are the most unrealistic planets, they are both so similar but for different reasons. Uranus needs mental stimulatiom, Neptune needs spiritual unison which would make one wonder then why would Neptune in 7th H aboid relationships? Because like Uranus, Neptune lives in its head too, wants to keep the idealistic image of the loved ones as long as possible. The most realistic the relationship the quicker Neptune will get disappointed in one way or another. That is why both of these planets need too much space and avoid relationships, at least the classic relationships.

Saturn in 8th H in Cap and especially Aqua is acting like a delay. That delay may be forever. Saturn in Aqua or Cap is strong. When a planet gives negative results it's best for the planet to be weak by sign because if it's strong it enhances the negative result, so the planet becomes stronger when it comes to negative results.

I've also known someone who has all the placements I mentioned above but Saturn is in Pisces in 8th H (even though the 8th H is in Aqua too) and she had sex but no relationship (Uranus and Neptune in 7th H).

Edit: I meant that all the ones I've known/seen with these placements didn't even had sex, not only relationships.

Uranus/Saturn/North Node in 7th H make it harder for the native to have relationships, so it may lead to someone going solo but it desn't mean he won't be intimate with anyone.

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That's not true actually.
Not all Cancer ASCs are going to remain alone.

It's the ones born in the Cap generation whose whose Uranus and/or Neptune are in their 7th H, Saturn (in Cap or Aqua) is in their 8th H and Pluto in their 5th H.

I can't even count how many times I've seen this combo and probably it's not a coincidence, I have it myself.

Pluto in the 5th H gets 5th H matters such as romance, flirt, flings and casual sex very seriously (same goes for Saturn in 5th H) because Pluto needs depth which is kind of contradictive of what this house represents.

Uranus and Neptune are the most unrealistic planets, they are both so similar but for different reasons. Uranus needs mental stimulatiom, Neptune needs spiritual unison which would make one wonder then why would Neptune in 7th H aboid relationships? Because like Uranus, Neptune lives in its head too, wants to keep the idealistic image of the loved ones as long as possible. The most realistic the relationship the quicker Neptune will get disappointed in one way or another. That is why both of these planets need too much space and avoid relationships, at least the classic relationships.

Saturn in 8th H in Cap and especially Aqua is acting like a delay. That delay may be forever. Saturn in Aqua or Cap is strong. When a planet gives negative results it's best for the planet to be weak by sign because if it's strong it enhances the negative result, so the planet becomes stronger when it comes to negative results.

I've also known someone who has all the placements I mentioned above but Saturn is in Pisces in 8th H (even though the 8th H is in Aqua too) and she had sex but no relationship (Uranus and Neptune in 7th H).

We auto sabotage things tho. I have Cancer Rising, uranus and neptune conjunct mars in 7th, pluto in 5th and Saturn retrograde in taurus in 10th. I attract serious relationships but me with the tendency of thinking they are going to cheat or use me anyway, I try to make is not a compromise.
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Allow me to disagree with you (of course not about your mom although I am cutlrious to see her chart) but about Saturn giving rewards in the end. There are some natal charts that for some reason whenever Saturn transits or progressions touch natal placements the native gets something good via being patient (not trying hard but trying for a long time.. for example college). There are other charts like mine that whenever transit Saturn goes even into an empty house it destroys anything in that house and when it gets out of it deals the final blow which leaves the native devastated to the core.
What makes me more angry is the fact that Saturn's punishments are not something I personally deserved based on my choices or my actions. A great example would be when transit Saturn went through my empty 4th H.. When it entered my 4th H I learned about my father having cancer. I was at the hospital all day for about a little less than 2 years (with my dad) and when Saturn entered my 5tH house my dad died. Why? What was the Saturn's gift exactly? Then it entered my 5th house and the guy we've been trying for about 2 years to be together (because of the so many obstacles) told me that he had never had so many obstacles with anyone and that he thinks that the obstacles would never end for us.. The best part of all it's that he is Saturnian! A person witb capricorn and Saturn aspects saying that he never had so many obstacles before and that he was tired of it.. I mean even a Saturnian couldn't handle it..
We already had Saturn synastry aspects but all our trying hard to be with each other was leading to nothing.. what was the reward again? Nothing but pain in the end.
I can keep going on about everything that happened whenever transit Saturn touched a planet or a house of mines.. even when transit Saturn trined a planet there was some kind of dissapointment or pain just not a huge one compared to harder aspects.
Also I want to say that Saturn synastry aspects making relationship stable or last long is a huge HUGE myth. I've been through that not only once.. the reality is that those aspects put so many obstacles and the more of them you finally get over the more and the bigger ones keep appearing.. Everything prevents you from being with that person.. after a lot time has passed by trying it comes to a point that all you remember is trying.. and you wonder what the hell I was trying about? Where are the efing good times? Should I keep trying until I am forty? Fifty? Sixty? Until when?? The reality is that there is not a good end.
My longest lasting friendships and platonic relationships are the ones who have no synastry Saturn aspects AT ALL and here comes the best part.. not only they don't have Saturn aspects.. but they have tons of Uranus aspects! believe it or not..
I don't know why Saturn is so negative to the point of being seriously destructive for me since there aren't any hard tight Saturn aspects in my natal chart.
You have to see how Saturn affects you.. I know now that trying to get over Saturn obstacles for me is a no no.. so i run away when I see Saturn aspects in a synastry.
Look at how Saturn affects you.
yeah saturn is a ****** planet to have in your chart. i have a cap sun cap in 5th house saturn in 3rd house saturn square my asc. a seriously destructive planet to have
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We auto sabotage things tho. I have Cancer Rising, uranus and neptune conjunct mars in 7th, pluto in 5th and Saturn retrograde in taurus in 10th. I attract serious relationships but me with the tendency of thinking they are going to cheat or use me anyway, I try to make is not a compromise.
I had realised too many things too young actually before I even got into astrology.

Do you have long term "normal" relationships?

I'm interested in seeing your chart.
The cases I was mentioning have Saturn in 8th H (no relationships, no sex) or Saturn in 7th H (they have sex but relationships tend to be delayed)

It's the first time someone has all these placements with Saturn not being in 7th or 8th H. Would you mind posting your chart?
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yeah saturn is a ****** planet to have in your chart. i have a cap sun cap in 5th house saturn in 3rd house saturn square my asc. a seriously destructive planet to have
We all have Saturn somewhere in our chart. Some aspects/placements are easy while others are difficult.
How is Saturn playing out for you?
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We all have Saturn somewhere in our chart. Some aspects/placements are easy while others are difficult.
How is Saturn playing out for you?
not good. its been like a cloud of bad luck following me around my whole life. and capricorn on 5th house cusp just ***** the joy and fun out of life.
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not good. its been like a cloud of bad luck following me around my whole life. and capricorn on 5th house cusp just ***** the joy and fun out of life.
Ugh.. I have just Saturn in 8th H (no aspects) and I can clearly feel how bad Saturn affects me in the 8th H matters.

Blocks, delays and obstacles are Saturnian traits.

Saturn in 5th H is indeed one of the most difficult Saturn placements. However I think Capricorn being the 5th H cusp is not as difficult.
Would you mind sharing your chart?
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Ugh.. I have just Saturn in 8th H (no aspects) and I can clearly feel how bad Saturn affects me in the 8th H matters.

Blocks, delays and obstacles are Saturnian traits.

Saturn in 5th H is indeed one of the most difficult Saturn placements. However I think Capricorn being the 5th H cusp is not as difficult.
Would you mind sharing your chart?
I cant post it from my phone but i can give you the info and you can look up my chart
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Re: Are all Cancer Ascendant doom to marry later in life?

Cancer ascendant people are the ones whose mindset change every fortnight. For cancer ascendant people the placement of Moon becomes crucial.Saturn the 7th and 8th lord being in the ascendant is an blessing in Disguise. Saturn being an 7th lord in ascendant means that the person will get an spouse of his will and their bond is long lasting as Saturn slows down the house he aspects. So the marriage bonding is strong provided the fact that Saturn is not in Jupiter nakshatra in cancer.Venus in 12th house in Gemini, It is 9th and 2nd from its houses respectively giving an positive impact on the person.
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