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Unread 12-14-2020, 05:36 AM
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Can you be friends with someone after sleeping with them?

You mutually agree to it but develop feelings, and canít separate it from a friends with benefits situation

What is your next move ?

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Unread 12-14-2020, 06:54 AM
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Re: Can you be friends with someone after sleeping with them?

That's why I don't do friends with benefits.
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Unread 12-14-2020, 07:19 AM
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Re: Can you be friends with someone after sleeping with them?

either you reduce sex to a purely physical and hedonistic activity
or you take sex seriously in which case the relationship has to move to one extreme: separated or integrated
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Re: Can you be friends with someone after sleeping with them?

If you let time pass and it isn't any longer a physical relationship, yes.
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Unread 12-14-2020, 10:16 AM
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Re: Can you be friends with someone after sleeping with them?

Yes, im good friends with my ex boyfriend. But also after one lr two years after break up. As long as you or he had feelings for you its not possible
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Unread 12-14-2020, 12:41 PM
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Re: Can you be friends with someone after sleeping with them?

Actually, a friendship taken up after time can be very rewarding, because you know each other, and have gotten over the elephant in the room and can relax with each other.
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Re: Can you be friends with someone after sleeping with them?

It is impossible to know or control the other person's mind, emotion and motive, so that it would become uncertain and difficult situation. Also bear in mind, emotions, feelings and thoughts all bound to change in people too.
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