Your chart signals tendencies you have. These tendencies are the cards you were dealt at birth.
The aspects you specify suggest the hardships that are related to the disappointment when romance does not live up to the fantasy. It is not a cruel joke or a curse, it is a tendency that tends to cause disappointment about love. One way to deal with such a configuration is to study the optimistic alternative. If you are frustrated with Moon-square-Neptune, then study Moon-trine-Neptune. It will not take much for you to make an adjustment to your tendency. The square and the trine have much in common: Moon/Neptune. Same goes for Venus/Neptune.