Star Searcher
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[FONT="]Hi.
Some of you may know me as the one who posted previous questions about my Bipolar Boyfriend.
So now I have a new situation,which has been going on for a while. On August 28th, he began another manic episode. On that very same day he attended a writer's workshop, where he met a homeless transgender prostitute. They became fast friends. The following Tuesday they went back to his family's apartment. It was a pre-scheduled trip because his birthday falls on August 31st. His family threw him into the looney bin. During his second week of confinement, the transgender prostitute Facebooked me and told me that she was coming back to my city. That week she was in my apartment on Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Saturday. For someone who I feel very uneasy about, that is way too much. When my boyfriend came back I lost my temper and told him how much of a nightmare it has been with that trannie around all the time. Over the past few weeks I have put my foot down and told my boyfriend that she cannot come here that frequently and that I can only deal with her coming to my apartment every four to five days. But it is obvious that he had been sneaking her in every other day while I am at work. My long term temp assignment just ended on October 14th. Now that I am home all the time, this will complicate the situation.
Ever since I met her on August 30th, she has kept on telling us outlandish stories about her family background. While I do believe that she is a victim of incest and possible child prostitution (unspoken but this is what I intuit), I find it very difficult to believe that A)her parents are Satanists and she was specifically bred to be a sex slave; B) she was born female but then her parents changed her into male so now she is trying to revert back to female (she is obviously a male to female transgender person); C) she was raised in a shack hidden away from the government so none of the authorities knew she existed (seriously? all governments want to know about every person on their land); D) she never went to school or got home schooled (then how come she knows readin', writin', 'rithmetic, and computers? ) and E) she escaped to America (does this mean she is illegal? why does she speak with a Southern accent?). She also has told us that she has no birth certificate and Social Security ID. I told her that she needs to go to the Russian consulate so they can contact the hospitals of her birth city for the document(s). She absolutely refuses to and claims it is of no use. I think that she hasn't even tried.
What I am most worried about is my security. Is she a con-artist? While my boyfriend was in the hospital(s) she noticed his smartphone lying around and told me that since we have no idea when he is coming back (at that time we didn't) she should have it. While I was at work she rearranged and organized some of my paper clutter (I have a hoarding disorder). Obviously there is a good chance that she have seen some of my personal information.
She keeps on breaching my boundaries. She has swiped a pair of earrings and a bra from my walk-in closet. I don't want the earrings back (it has pierced her lobes) but I am debating whether I should buy her a new bra with falsies so that I can have my old one back. She's been stuffing my bra with face washcloths and it looks lumpy and funny.
She does cook for us whenever she is at my place. But even this has put me at unease. The routine is that she asks me for grocery money so that she can buy ingredients. Often times she asks for additional cash for a second round of shopping. I think that she makes money from these excursions by pocketing the change. One day while he was still hospitalized she asked to have my credit card to get groceries. When I told her that my account was closed due to my debt she looked disappointed.
While most of my worries about my security has been financial, there is a small part of me that is worried about my physical safety. Two of my friends have told me that I am in "grave danger". While I don't see her as capable of giving me a beat down (she's very petite), I think she is involved in sleazy elements. First off, she is a prostitute. Second I overheard her talking on the phone with her on and off ex-boyfriend. She said something similar to "When I become a woman I can come back to you (probably Maryland or Tennessee ) and they won't be looking for us." I have no I idea what she and/or her ex-boyfriend did but she may be on the lam. She has no idea that I overheard part of the conversation. I live in a very small studio apartment so I couldn't help it.
I am uploading her chart. Unfortunately I do not have her birth time. This is the best I can do. I guesstimated her time of birth by reading every short report pertaining to her on Astrodienst and adjusting the birth data time. Let me know if I need to upload my own chart and my boyfriend's chart.
Also feel free to move this thread to a more appropriate sub-forum. Just let me know.
Thank you in advance for your advice.[/FONT]
Some of you may know me as the one who posted previous questions about my Bipolar Boyfriend.
So now I have a new situation,which has been going on for a while. On August 28th, he began another manic episode. On that very same day he attended a writer's workshop, where he met a homeless transgender prostitute. They became fast friends. The following Tuesday they went back to his family's apartment. It was a pre-scheduled trip because his birthday falls on August 31st. His family threw him into the looney bin. During his second week of confinement, the transgender prostitute Facebooked me and told me that she was coming back to my city. That week she was in my apartment on Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Saturday. For someone who I feel very uneasy about, that is way too much. When my boyfriend came back I lost my temper and told him how much of a nightmare it has been with that trannie around all the time. Over the past few weeks I have put my foot down and told my boyfriend that she cannot come here that frequently and that I can only deal with her coming to my apartment every four to five days. But it is obvious that he had been sneaking her in every other day while I am at work. My long term temp assignment just ended on October 14th. Now that I am home all the time, this will complicate the situation.
Ever since I met her on August 30th, she has kept on telling us outlandish stories about her family background. While I do believe that she is a victim of incest and possible child prostitution (unspoken but this is what I intuit), I find it very difficult to believe that A)her parents are Satanists and she was specifically bred to be a sex slave; B) she was born female but then her parents changed her into male so now she is trying to revert back to female (she is obviously a male to female transgender person); C) she was raised in a shack hidden away from the government so none of the authorities knew she existed (seriously? all governments want to know about every person on their land); D) she never went to school or got home schooled (then how come she knows readin', writin', 'rithmetic, and computers? ) and E) she escaped to America (does this mean she is illegal? why does she speak with a Southern accent?). She also has told us that she has no birth certificate and Social Security ID. I told her that she needs to go to the Russian consulate so they can contact the hospitals of her birth city for the document(s). She absolutely refuses to and claims it is of no use. I think that she hasn't even tried.
What I am most worried about is my security. Is she a con-artist? While my boyfriend was in the hospital(s) she noticed his smartphone lying around and told me that since we have no idea when he is coming back (at that time we didn't) she should have it. While I was at work she rearranged and organized some of my paper clutter (I have a hoarding disorder). Obviously there is a good chance that she have seen some of my personal information.
She keeps on breaching my boundaries. She has swiped a pair of earrings and a bra from my walk-in closet. I don't want the earrings back (it has pierced her lobes) but I am debating whether I should buy her a new bra with falsies so that I can have my old one back. She's been stuffing my bra with face washcloths and it looks lumpy and funny.
She does cook for us whenever she is at my place. But even this has put me at unease. The routine is that she asks me for grocery money so that she can buy ingredients. Often times she asks for additional cash for a second round of shopping. I think that she makes money from these excursions by pocketing the change. One day while he was still hospitalized she asked to have my credit card to get groceries. When I told her that my account was closed due to my debt she looked disappointed.
While most of my worries about my security has been financial, there is a small part of me that is worried about my physical safety. Two of my friends have told me that I am in "grave danger". While I don't see her as capable of giving me a beat down (she's very petite), I think she is involved in sleazy elements. First off, she is a prostitute. Second I overheard her talking on the phone with her on and off ex-boyfriend. She said something similar to "When I become a woman I can come back to you (probably Maryland or Tennessee ) and they won't be looking for us." I have no I idea what she and/or her ex-boyfriend did but she may be on the lam. She has no idea that I overheard part of the conversation. I live in a very small studio apartment so I couldn't help it.
I am uploading her chart. Unfortunately I do not have her birth time. This is the best I can do. I guesstimated her time of birth by reading every short report pertaining to her on Astrodienst and adjusting the birth data time. Let me know if I need to upload my own chart and my boyfriend's chart.
Also feel free to move this thread to a more appropriate sub-forum. Just let me know.
Thank you in advance for your advice.[/FONT]
