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My boyfriend has been charged with two counts of trespassing. The trial will be in Manhattan, New York City, on February 11th.
Here is what happened. On January 19th, shortly after 10 PM, he left my apartment to drown his post football sorrows in a local neighborhood bar. I had no idea he was gone because I was sound asleep. I go to bed early due to my job schedule.
He is bipolar, and he was not aware that one cannot consume alcohol while on medication. Also he is a pothead. To top it off, there may have been trace amounts of 'shrooms because he micro-dosed a few days beforehand. All together he had a cocktail of four substances in his system.
My apartment complex is changing from one facial recognition security system to another. IMO it should have been completed a while ago. Anybody can walk into the buildings.
From what I can reconstruct, he entered one of the buildings, tried to door handles of several private apartments, "lucked out" and found and unlocked apartment, entered the apartment, and then got chased out. He then repeated this and entered a second private apartment. He has absolutely no memory of this. We do not know which building he entered. I assume it wasn't mine, but I don't know for sure.
Trespassing is a Class A Misdemeanor. The maximum punishment he could receive is a total fine of $2,0000 ($1,000 per charge) and jail time of up to 365 days.
There are factors that may influence the outcome of the trial. On one hand this is his first offense.
On the other hand he has masturbated naked with my front door wide open. This happened at least four times last summer. In one instance he wanted me to partake in this exhibitionist activity, but I refused. In a second incidence, I was in bed half asleep, but I was having a strong suspicion that this was going on.
Directly across the hallway from us is an apartment which has mentally challenged adults with cerebral palsy. They receive 24 hour care with a rotating staff of nurse caretakers. In the third incidence, a nurse opened the apartment door to the hallway only to be confronted with my boyfriend in his full glory. She screamed and protested. Because I was in or near the kitchen, I did not see what was happening. I heard everything. (But not the specific words of what she said.)
The fourth incident, which I did not witness, resulted in a formal complaint to the property manager. This information was relayed to the local precinct.
The evening of January 21st we received a knock on my apartment door. He answered it and I heard him speak to a man briefly. Then he stepped back inside and put on his sneakers and an overcoat. He asked me what was happening. I said I did not know. Also that moment I was having an energy slump and was slightly sleepy. He was escorted out. By the end of twenty minutes I was more alert and was realizing that something had gone terribly wrong. About a hour later two detectives knocked on my door. I invited them in. They then asked me a lot of questions.
One thing that I did not mention to the detectives (they never asked) was his pornographic viewing habits. One of his favorite erotic genres is the Got/Getting Caught fantasy. I'm just mentioning here so that you guys know more about him.
He was released back to my apartment Tuesday night/early Wednesday morning. The next day the General Manger of the building complex called my cellphone while I was at work. He left a message stating that I was responsible for the behavior of my guest(s) and that I had broken my lease regulations. Then he said that my boyfriend had to leave the premises ASAP, He ended by saying that if my boyfriend stepped foot anywhere in the complex then he would prosecute me to the full extent of the law. I take that to mean that I would lose my Section 8 voucher and my apartment. I did not call the General Manager back because I wanted my boyfriend to hear the phone message when I got home. I played it to his dismay. He then went down to the lobby where there was a secondary management office/showroom and spoke to some people. After he came back into my apartment we both heard voices outside our door. I opened it and there was the General Manger and a policeman. They told us that he had five minutes.
I believe he is currently staying with his family in Edison, NJ. I don't know how long that is going to last and if he has a permanent abode.
As I mentioned above, the trial date is scheduled on February 11th. Could somebody tell me what will his fate and punishment will be? Also please give me some insights about us and where our relationship is headed.
I've uploaded our natal charts. If you guys need other charts (such as current transits) please give me explicit instructions.
Thanks in advance.
Here is what happened. On January 19th, shortly after 10 PM, he left my apartment to drown his post football sorrows in a local neighborhood bar. I had no idea he was gone because I was sound asleep. I go to bed early due to my job schedule.
He is bipolar, and he was not aware that one cannot consume alcohol while on medication. Also he is a pothead. To top it off, there may have been trace amounts of 'shrooms because he micro-dosed a few days beforehand. All together he had a cocktail of four substances in his system.
My apartment complex is changing from one facial recognition security system to another. IMO it should have been completed a while ago. Anybody can walk into the buildings.
From what I can reconstruct, he entered one of the buildings, tried to door handles of several private apartments, "lucked out" and found and unlocked apartment, entered the apartment, and then got chased out. He then repeated this and entered a second private apartment. He has absolutely no memory of this. We do not know which building he entered. I assume it wasn't mine, but I don't know for sure.
Trespassing is a Class A Misdemeanor. The maximum punishment he could receive is a total fine of $2,0000 ($1,000 per charge) and jail time of up to 365 days.
There are factors that may influence the outcome of the trial. On one hand this is his first offense.
On the other hand he has masturbated naked with my front door wide open. This happened at least four times last summer. In one instance he wanted me to partake in this exhibitionist activity, but I refused. In a second incidence, I was in bed half asleep, but I was having a strong suspicion that this was going on.
Directly across the hallway from us is an apartment which has mentally challenged adults with cerebral palsy. They receive 24 hour care with a rotating staff of nurse caretakers. In the third incidence, a nurse opened the apartment door to the hallway only to be confronted with my boyfriend in his full glory. She screamed and protested. Because I was in or near the kitchen, I did not see what was happening. I heard everything. (But not the specific words of what she said.)
The fourth incident, which I did not witness, resulted in a formal complaint to the property manager. This information was relayed to the local precinct.
The evening of January 21st we received a knock on my apartment door. He answered it and I heard him speak to a man briefly. Then he stepped back inside and put on his sneakers and an overcoat. He asked me what was happening. I said I did not know. Also that moment I was having an energy slump and was slightly sleepy. He was escorted out. By the end of twenty minutes I was more alert and was realizing that something had gone terribly wrong. About a hour later two detectives knocked on my door. I invited them in. They then asked me a lot of questions.
One thing that I did not mention to the detectives (they never asked) was his pornographic viewing habits. One of his favorite erotic genres is the Got/Getting Caught fantasy. I'm just mentioning here so that you guys know more about him.
He was released back to my apartment Tuesday night/early Wednesday morning. The next day the General Manger of the building complex called my cellphone while I was at work. He left a message stating that I was responsible for the behavior of my guest(s) and that I had broken my lease regulations. Then he said that my boyfriend had to leave the premises ASAP, He ended by saying that if my boyfriend stepped foot anywhere in the complex then he would prosecute me to the full extent of the law. I take that to mean that I would lose my Section 8 voucher and my apartment. I did not call the General Manager back because I wanted my boyfriend to hear the phone message when I got home. I played it to his dismay. He then went down to the lobby where there was a secondary management office/showroom and spoke to some people. After he came back into my apartment we both heard voices outside our door. I opened it and there was the General Manger and a policeman. They told us that he had five minutes.
I believe he is currently staying with his family in Edison, NJ. I don't know how long that is going to last and if he has a permanent abode.
As I mentioned above, the trial date is scheduled on February 11th. Could somebody tell me what will his fate and punishment will be? Also please give me some insights about us and where our relationship is headed.
I've uploaded our natal charts. If you guys need other charts (such as current transits) please give me explicit instructions.
Thanks in advance.