AllieStar
Member
My heart is broken and I need to understand my role in the break-up. Did I cause the relationship to end?
After years of caring from afar because we were both married, we met last year (both divorced) and grew deeply in love - an 8 month, long distance relationsihp. On a trip in Nov, after a long day in a class, he became annoyed, implying I was taking too much of his time (my continuous presence?). I eventually responded, sternly, that I was not expecting 100% of his time. The discussion continued ... he withdrew. We discussed this a week later and I thought our communication issues were resolved but a month later he ended the relationship - eventually stating my "extreme anger" on the trip "scared" him. Honestly, in spite of communication issues under stress, this was the best relationship of my life and I am still in love with him. There was an energy and stimulation intellectually, emotionally, physically I never experienced before. Did I really scare him? Did I cause the break-up? I am attaching the chart for the day of the "discussion" 11-13-2010. I am also attaching our natal charts (don't know if it helps).
I am Pisces/Aries Cusp, he is Pisces. I would like closure and this will help.
After years of caring from afar because we were both married, we met last year (both divorced) and grew deeply in love - an 8 month, long distance relationsihp. On a trip in Nov, after a long day in a class, he became annoyed, implying I was taking too much of his time (my continuous presence?). I eventually responded, sternly, that I was not expecting 100% of his time. The discussion continued ... he withdrew. We discussed this a week later and I thought our communication issues were resolved but a month later he ended the relationship - eventually stating my "extreme anger" on the trip "scared" him. Honestly, in spite of communication issues under stress, this was the best relationship of my life and I am still in love with him. There was an energy and stimulation intellectually, emotionally, physically I never experienced before. Did I really scare him? Did I cause the break-up? I am attaching the chart for the day of the "discussion" 11-13-2010. I am also attaching our natal charts (don't know if it helps).
I am Pisces/Aries Cusp, he is Pisces. I would like closure and this will help.