Froggy said:
So first, I was wondering if anyone else noticed something to this effect in their relations with others. Do you know an unusually large amount of people with a certain aspect or sign placement?
And second, I'm wondering, why???
Yes, I have several times been in a very complex relationship with people who all have Mars square or opposition Saturn, both male and female, and I don't think it is random at all.
Why? I thought about this a lot. Projection perhaps? These people acting out all those inner, inferior functions of yourself. My case, just concluded based on this aspect
I have Mars Saturn semi-square in my chart, but I am far from acting the description of this aspect, since it can be very agressive, controlling, dominant, even cruel, and I don't allow this to myself. But I get weird kicks out of someone being that way, it fascinates me in a way
[sick, I know]
also, I feel it is of importance I have these Mars Saturn hard aspects in synastry charts with both of my parents
I'll know I've evolved once these people stop being attractive to me
I believe we subconcioussly pick these particular people to compensate for something, and to learn a lesson. Think about what all those people have in common, what is it in them that makes them stick around in your life. I think this will give you an answer what you need to learn from them