Do I recall correctly you have planets transit your 7th house right now? Either way, it could be the universe is not allowing success right now. I should have had this healing relationship before but planets were against me. However it’s good to put feelers out there. The toxic last guy I was speaking to, he’s a dating website fanatic. So he wastes his time on casual stuff but he’s also putting feelers out there. Finding someone is about networking basically. I don’t network or do I think in terms of networking. But people that do are more successful if you get me. People that plan and network and manipulate may be shallow and narcissistic but they do have the right idea.
I know what you mean but those people don’t care about real and true love and they continue to manipulate. Networking is still a good idea without the manipulation and I find it awkward but once this crazy pandemic is over I will try. My transits are all over my 4th right now. Next year I have 7th house transits and maybe 5th i think. Dating site fanatic - it can get addictive and that’s what’s happening to your one by the sounds of it.