Hi rahu!
Thank you for the reply.
I don't know what to think. The beginning of the relationship was intense, but it didn't have anything to do with the finances, it was more sexual tension.
As for finances, I am financially stable one, meaning my contract is for the indefinite period, my education is higher, salary better, while my bf has undergone job instabilities in 2012 and 2013 (salary delays, lack of job and working on and off).
I met his family, friends and relatives very soon after we started dating. They all like me. He was the first to tell me he loved me. I regularly go to his house, so I've made efforts to take him out, to concerts which he likes and similar. I don't feel financially ruined by doing this. He has, however, complained numerous times about his lack of money and inability to find a good and stable job. It's interesting you say he has no intentions for a commitment, when actually he was the first one mentioning it. Hmm..
I'll keep my eyes open and hope for the best.