My moon is in libra in my 8th house, intercepted, and opposing my mars in aries.
I would definitely consider myself to be extremely secretive. This isnt obvious to anyone, maybe that im closed off, but really most arent aware of what I choose not to show.
I feel like most dont know my authentic self, or how emotional I am, or my past.
I also like to psychoanalyze, im always thinking and wondering about people and how their minds work. Also would consider myself as intuitive
Another thing Is my relationship with my mom, its especially awful and definitely consists of 8th house themes.
"...extremely secretive. This isnt obvious to anyone, maybe that im closed off, but really most arent aware of what I choose not to show."
This^^^ describes my 8th house Cap moon as well. My Moon conjunct Chiron and Mars. I have some troubling emotional memories and I hold them close, and have many things I have never shared with anyone other than my husband and my long time childhood best friend.
I share many things here because I feel anonymous. I shared some things here that I have almost never spoken about to others, except my husband of 37 years.
"I also like to psychoanalyze, im always thinking and wondering about people and how their minds work. Also would consider myself as intuitive "
Yes, this^^^ too. I love to psychoanalyse people as well.
Astrology gives us the symbolic language to be able to do that effectively.
I am always very interested in True Crimes and mysteries concerning missing people or unsolved murders. It fascinates me how and why someone could do such vicious things . And I love to 'websleuth' these unsolved crimes.
That is probably also from my Sun in Scorpio and my Mercury in Scorpio conjunct the Descendant.
"Another thing Is my relationship with my mom, its especially awful and definitely consists of 8th house themes"
The only thing that doesn't fit my 8th house Moon is my relationship with my Mom. She and I are very close and she is 90 years old.
She is Pisces with a Scorpio Moon and her Moon is conjunct my Mercury in Scorpio, so we have always communicated very well. She is a very loving, kind soul so I lucked out.
My Moon in Cap doesn't seem to describe a cold hearted Mother---it describes an ambitious , motivated woman who worked hard as a single Mom with 3 young kids, who left a cheating husband and still managed to give her kids a good stable life.
Our relationship did have some 8th house themes....I was sexually abused by my uncle, her younger brother, when I was very young. She had him move in and help with after school childcare while she was at work, after the divorce.
I didnt tell her about it for 30 years...
...As kids, we have such a strange way of viewing things....I knew how hard my Mom was working, trying to get use all settled in, trying to find a good job, fighting for custody, etc....I didnt want to rock the boat....