Why didn't you ask him? I suppose this would have been a much easier and reliable method than a horary.
For a *reason* why he was looking for closeness, seeing all of the planets in his house, I'd say he is going through something deeply transformational and uncomfortable. Mars, Saturn, Pluto are all in/near his house, and that's a challenging energy. He might be confused and looking for support. If he is having trouble in his relationship, it's normal he would look for support outside.
I did not ask him, because it is not my style to see something bothering a person and start asking him personal questions... I was trying to bring comfort anf leave him make his own peace. The point where I dared to ask what is wrong... He slowly shut down to me. So you see... Why I ask in horary...
And to me, it is not normal to look for support someone outside your relationship. Don't u think that ut partner is your closest being? That's why called partner??
And again, that is why I asked if she cheats, because to me there is no logical reason why u would be so distant confused and hurt so you look for support and positive confirmation elsewhere.
And yes, I deeply care about him but just in case u r asking yourself I would never ruin someone's relationship and mess with it; and I would not judge one's behaviour. I just dont understand it. And caring that much, for me it is important to understand.
But thanks mentioning him going through tough times, it confirms my observations.
I'd also be glad if someone tries to answer the question and not making psychological analysis of his actions and feelings.
Thanks.