Thank you katydid and Frisiangel. I guess I'm looking for more personal stories. I can't find many on the internet.
My Pluto square Venus transit happened when I was a young child. Looking back on it now, it happened when I had a deeply traumatic experience. I still remember that period of time, and I was only about 5 years old.
My Mom found out my Dad was having an affair with his legal secretary. Her Moon in Scorpio took over, and suddenly she was packing up our things, and she scooped up her 3 kids, and all of our personal belongings, and moved out of the house. While Dad was at work.
Suddenly, with no warning, we were living in the family room of her parents home, with my aunts and uncles, who were teens. My life was uprooted.
My natal Pluto in in the 4th house. It was in the 5th, at the very edge of it, when it entered Virgo and squared my 7th house Venus in Sag.
It was traumatic. My Mom was doing the best she could, but it was rough for us.
Life as we knew it was over. Suddenly I was living in a different house, in a different town, was going to a different school, and my Mom, for the 1st time ever, was going to work every day.
She had been a doting, stay at home Pisces mommy, taking us for walks and going to the park every day. And that life was over.
Now we were kind of in chaos, exciting but erratic at times.
I went from seeing My Dad every day to not seeing him much at all for a year or so.
On top of all that, My grandfather had been coughing a lot. And months after we moved in, he was diagnosed with lung cancer. So during my long drawn out Pluto transit, my grandfather became very ill, and eventually passed away. His bedroom became a hospice.
So Pluto square Venus for me involved death in a very real way. I watched Grandpa waste away and die.
I was almost 7 years old and my Scorpio
planets were kicking in then for sure. I watched silently as that whole tragedy played out.
On a good note , tr Pluto was also trining my Moon in Cap, so my Mom was growing stronger every day. She healed and soon met the true love of her life, remarried, and my 2 brothers and I had the best stepdad ever imagined. He was a wonderful man and so it was a GOOD thing all that turmoil happened.