"my emotions, my mind, my unconscious, my habits, are intertwined for the better and the worst"
Please know, my friend, this is true for all of us, so know you have LOTS of company.
Looking at your chart, Moon in Gemini is an extremely active mind, both mental and emotional mind, which can be wonderful for writers and thinkers and other ways, and also can also be wearying for you, especially if you are not attending to it and may get carried away by it.
I don't see your Moon Jup conjunction as totally incompatible. It is in the sense that Moon Jup are in side by side signs so incompatible by aspect. But I actually see exalted benefic Jupiter conjunct Moon as a favorable based on the reception between them. Moon may not feel that way based on its reception to Jup, but benefic exalted Jup looks favorably on Moon, which can ease some of the stress/active energy of Moon in Gem and create more balance between Gem/Can.
You are a very sensitive person with a very strong Cancer imprint all over the chart: Sun in Cancer and also Jup in Cancer ruling your sensitive Pisces ascendant. And it looks like Merc and possibly Jup may trine the Asc.
So you may also wish to be attentive to periodically taking a brief step back, a breath, to consider if you are too steeped in your feelings, and so not best serving the situation before you: Always seeking to move toward greater balance among the energies of your being.
You have it in you to do this.