Hi Im hoping that someone might be kind enough to shine some light on my chart. I feel like there is a strong chance of family astrangement if im not careful and its really stressing me out. Ive worked with my mum for 14years and we have had a very close relationship. Since november/december ive seen her in a different light and i dont know if shes always been that way or if its a phase. Feel like theres some serious power tripping and gaslighting going on and that she wants to drive a wedge between me and the rest of my family. Any insights at all would be so helpful.
Have given 3months notice that im leaving work but at this stage im not even sure if i can trust her to give me a decent reference.
She’s cut my hours today on a trial basis for two weeks, as we can’t seem to work together. Not sure what the intention of this is but it kinda feels like she is trying to push me into either submitting to her 100% or trying to provoke me to do something drastic like cut her out of my life (which I won’t do) as there is a pattern in her family of a parent or siblings not talking to each other and forming kinda mean power alliances against each other!!
Have given 3months notice that im leaving work but at this stage im not even sure if i can trust her to give me a decent reference.
She’s cut my hours today on a trial basis for two weeks, as we can’t seem to work together. Not sure what the intention of this is but it kinda feels like she is trying to push me into either submitting to her 100% or trying to provoke me to do something drastic like cut her out of my life (which I won’t do) as there is a pattern in her family of a parent or siblings not talking to each other and forming kinda mean power alliances against each other!!
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