Hi,
I recently met someone and if things go well in a very short period of time, I might get married to him. He wants it bad. I met him out of the blue just recently and he might propose to me in 2 months. There is a distance between us (physical), so we do not "date" in traditional sense, but it does not matter.I will have to move to his state if things work out in January for us.
Anyways, this is a financial question related to our relationship and it is a very important one for me. I would like to know if D. is cheap or not? He said something that is typically a sign of being cheap, but because of the distance between us, I cannot determine if he is or not. I had my share of cheap men in life and definitely they turn me off, so I would like to know whether D. is cheap or not? Please help me figure this out. I have not posted a question on him, since we only recently met, but if he is not cheap then that would be a huge relief, as living with a cheap man later on will not help out the relationship. I have my way of looking at this.
He has an expensive home and makes lots of money, but that means zero. Some people are very cheap towards others regardless how much they've got. He said that women don't go to dates with him unless he treats them for a luxury dinner. That did not sound right to me because his tone was more on the complaining side about going out to a dinner. He's 40 so I though to myself "isn't that what most men do anyways on dates? Do you expect to call a woman over to your place to eat popcorn and watch DVDs like teenagers?" So I did not like the fact that he seemed to complain about taking a woman out to a dinner. I like it when a man takes me to a dinner and I ain't a gold digger because I can treat myself to dinner alone if i want to, but I would not appreciate a guy (who had $$) complaining over some $50 dinner date and whining about it. Please, please, please have a look at my chart.
I see that I should be looking at the 2nd house, right? But this is also based on a relationship, so will the 7th house place role here?
I recently met someone and if things go well in a very short period of time, I might get married to him. He wants it bad. I met him out of the blue just recently and he might propose to me in 2 months. There is a distance between us (physical), so we do not "date" in traditional sense, but it does not matter.I will have to move to his state if things work out in January for us.
Anyways, this is a financial question related to our relationship and it is a very important one for me. I would like to know if D. is cheap or not? He said something that is typically a sign of being cheap, but because of the distance between us, I cannot determine if he is or not. I had my share of cheap men in life and definitely they turn me off, so I would like to know whether D. is cheap or not? Please help me figure this out. I have not posted a question on him, since we only recently met, but if he is not cheap then that would be a huge relief, as living with a cheap man later on will not help out the relationship. I have my way of looking at this.
He has an expensive home and makes lots of money, but that means zero. Some people are very cheap towards others regardless how much they've got. He said that women don't go to dates with him unless he treats them for a luxury dinner. That did not sound right to me because his tone was more on the complaining side about going out to a dinner. He's 40 so I though to myself "isn't that what most men do anyways on dates? Do you expect to call a woman over to your place to eat popcorn and watch DVDs like teenagers?" So I did not like the fact that he seemed to complain about taking a woman out to a dinner. I like it when a man takes me to a dinner and I ain't a gold digger because I can treat myself to dinner alone if i want to, but I would not appreciate a guy (who had $$) complaining over some $50 dinner date and whining about it. Please, please, please have a look at my chart.
I see that I should be looking at the 2nd house, right? But this is also based on a relationship, so will the 7th house place role here?
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