A few more words then............
Venus sq pluto.
When younger, I needed constant affirmation of how desireable I was.
Hated with a vengeance, rejection from the opposite sex.
I learned very early on how to charm, not always overtly or conscious of this at time.
I liked to test men, I wasn't even ever very interested in them and new within seconds whether the relationship was worthwhile, but I liked to play!
Of course no one wins this game, and usually I was the hurt party, because I wasn't playing fairly or honestly with my own heart.
Pluto goes deep but positively he brings from the darkness into the light, has to show his hand.
Trust is an issue for venus/pluto.
If one insists on delving into anothers soul, then you need to acknowledge the price for that. So you have to do like, no tiptoeing around the edge, hiding your heart whilst trying extract from another, pluto wants you to pay up!
As someone else put earlier, you can't control anothers heart, they'll come to you when ready or not.
This is a hard lesson to learn, but I did and life is less exhausting now, it takes a lot of energy to control what can't be controlled.
When I was first with my current partner, he hated my picking!(as he called it)
But, if something was wrong with us, or someone was decieving him, I could smell it a mile off and wouldn't give up until it was aired and resolved, to me this was honouring the relationship, to him it felt like a vulture picking over bones.
But he does thank me for this now!