Snakechammah
Well-known member
I'm sorry if the question is a stupid one. Feels like it.
To be honest, I'm quite depressed about this and ready to throw in the towel and burn my feelings so I guess this 'question' is the last straw for me to draw some kind of closure/conclusion/nail-to-the-coffin/whatever.
I've been crushing on this dude (at work) since March. At first he seemed keen, we talked for a bit. One day I emailed him something flirty and he didn't respond. Not only was I utterly embarassed, I was also heartbroken. So the crush weakened for a few months. I ended up liking other people and other people liking me but in the end nothing happened.
Then a month ago, we had another contact. One thing leads to another and now we're on friendly terms again. He bought me a box of chocolates one day, in respond to some leftovers I gave him from a department party, and just last week, we had a really good chat in which he asked for my number and said 'we should hang out outside of work and talk more about astrology'. (I was telling him my interest in astrology and how to read natal charts-he seemed keen).
So anyway, the weekend's come and gone. So did 4 days of the week day. I heard nothing from him. He has my number. He has the plan. And yet, zilch. Nada. *cricket sounds*
Basic common sense tells me "he's just not into me"... but the past week had been SO HOPEFUL... He asked me to stay in his office so we could chat, he was sooo sooo keen.... I'm so broken-hearted now... I don't even know which of my planets combusted.
So now, I'm looking to the stars to find the answer and I'm not liking the chart. Sigh. If any kind souls out there would like to put me out of my misery, please do.
My intepretation (horary simplified):
Ascendent in Taurus so that makes me Venus
He's a Mars as Scorpio rules the 7th House.
We're both in the 4th House of home and roots- we had talked about our different cultures in the last chat.
There's an idiot planet in the 7th - Saturn - which means there's someone else in his life right now *criesssss*
He's about to go into Virgo - Mercury - which is in his 6th House (thinking of work/health/daily activities) whatever that means.
Because the Saturn's (other woman) sign is in Sagittarius, whose planet is in the 5th House, my brokenhearted mind is thinking maybe they're bonking together as 5th House is fun and bonk. Arrrrgggghhh *cries deeper into pillow*
Is that my answer? That he's "just not into me" because he's already bonking someone else?
I guess I just need someone to tell me - Tikana style - that it's not happening so I can just dry my tears and move on.
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To be honest, I'm quite depressed about this and ready to throw in the towel and burn my feelings so I guess this 'question' is the last straw for me to draw some kind of closure/conclusion/nail-to-the-coffin/whatever.
I've been crushing on this dude (at work) since March. At first he seemed keen, we talked for a bit. One day I emailed him something flirty and he didn't respond. Not only was I utterly embarassed, I was also heartbroken. So the crush weakened for a few months. I ended up liking other people and other people liking me but in the end nothing happened.
Then a month ago, we had another contact. One thing leads to another and now we're on friendly terms again. He bought me a box of chocolates one day, in respond to some leftovers I gave him from a department party, and just last week, we had a really good chat in which he asked for my number and said 'we should hang out outside of work and talk more about astrology'. (I was telling him my interest in astrology and how to read natal charts-he seemed keen).
So anyway, the weekend's come and gone. So did 4 days of the week day. I heard nothing from him. He has my number. He has the plan. And yet, zilch. Nada. *cricket sounds*
Basic common sense tells me "he's just not into me"... but the past week had been SO HOPEFUL... He asked me to stay in his office so we could chat, he was sooo sooo keen.... I'm so broken-hearted now... I don't even know which of my planets combusted.
So now, I'm looking to the stars to find the answer and I'm not liking the chart. Sigh. If any kind souls out there would like to put me out of my misery, please do.
My intepretation (horary simplified):
Ascendent in Taurus so that makes me Venus
He's a Mars as Scorpio rules the 7th House.
We're both in the 4th House of home and roots- we had talked about our different cultures in the last chat.
There's an idiot planet in the 7th - Saturn - which means there's someone else in his life right now *criesssss*
He's about to go into Virgo - Mercury - which is in his 6th House (thinking of work/health/daily activities) whatever that means.
Because the Saturn's (other woman) sign is in Sagittarius, whose planet is in the 5th House, my brokenhearted mind is thinking maybe they're bonking together as 5th House is fun and bonk. Arrrrgggghhh *cries deeper into pillow*
Is that my answer? That he's "just not into me" because he's already bonking someone else?
I guess I just need someone to tell me - Tikana style - that it's not happening so I can just dry my tears and move on.
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