lilllybelle said:
I don't know what I think about Radu's idea. It's kind of interesting, and I'd be open to the experimentation, but I'd hate to see this place turned into a meat market.
I don't think it is that serious. People are going to hook up if they want to, they don't need a thread to help them get that idea. We would have never known about Millinoras hook up, had she not shared that with usin this thread.
Ok, I'm in a relationship, but if I wasn't I'd want to be with someone with mars and venus conjunct in aires just like me, and I wouldn't touch another gemini with a ten foot pole. I'm a gemini and those gemini men seem to like me, like flies on dung. I guess my jupiter being in gemini, as well as my sun, makes them feel good. I like moon in scorpio too, even though our moons don't aspect each other.
My rising sign is Gemini and I don't want nothing to do with a Gemini as well. They also flock to me too but as soon as I know that they are a Gemini, I don't care how cute they are, I won't see them as anything else but someone for whom I can chat with. By the way, my Saturn is also in Gemini.
There's a problem with finding a guy with mars & venus conunct in aries. There's aren't too many of them. There was some born in 53, 77 and 85. It looks like mars and venus might have both been in aries at the same time for a couple of hours in 72. This kind of limits my chances of finding this particular aspect because I'm not going to date someone 24 years olders or 8 years younger. Also, there may be some dates I overlooked as I eyeballed the ephemeris to find the years listed.
It depends on what kind of relationship you desire, a conjunction is always favorable, but there are other venus mars aspects to consider that can be just as rewarding if not better, depending on the other aspects of course.
You know what scrap that, if I ever leave my guy, I'm just going to find a sweet, earthy guy. I don't care if he has mars and venus in aries or whatever just as long as he's sweet and we love each other. No more alpha males.
If you want a traditional relationship and you don't desire complicated or intense aspects, mars and venus conjunct, may be to intense for a basic and traditional relationship, particularly if mars and venus are in fire or fixed signs.
The aspects you desire, should always reflect what kind of relationship you wish to experience. Some people only want good sex, some people only want friendship, some people desire mental compatability and some people want it all, you get what I am saying?
Astrologer4U