As I learn more about synastry and composite charts I have been going to back to look at past failed relationships to see if I can find indications of why they didn't work out.
This relationship I was in started out with me being really into him and thinking he was great, then became a situation where I was miserable and felt trapped (we lived together and I couldn't afford to move out at the time).
Our communication ended up being really poor because he would immediately start yelling when I tried to talk about things that weren't working for me. There was also a lot of lying and deception on his part.
I don't see a lot of hard neptune which is supposed to indicate deception. I do see some problems in the synastry such as mars square mars exact, mars square saturn, a wide venus square venus, and a venus square pluto.
There is also a uranus square sun in synastry and a wide venus conjunct uranus in the composite, though we did manage to stay together for 2.5 years.
Are there indications (besides the ones I'm seeing) that show why this worked out the way it did?
This relationship I was in started out with me being really into him and thinking he was great, then became a situation where I was miserable and felt trapped (we lived together and I couldn't afford to move out at the time).
Our communication ended up being really poor because he would immediately start yelling when I tried to talk about things that weren't working for me. There was also a lot of lying and deception on his part.
I don't see a lot of hard neptune which is supposed to indicate deception. I do see some problems in the synastry such as mars square mars exact, mars square saturn, a wide venus square venus, and a venus square pluto.
There is also a uranus square sun in synastry and a wide venus conjunct uranus in the composite, though we did manage to stay together for 2.5 years.
Are there indications (besides the ones I'm seeing) that show why this worked out the way it did?