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Unread 10-07-2019, 12:20 AM
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Abuse in Composite

Currently entering a relationship with a new person. Although there is a lot of attraction and mental compatibility. I get a bad gut feeling somewhere from them.

They remind me of my ex who was abusive. It could be based on their physical appearance because they look similar. But I worry it is more. Can someone tell me if they see the potential of abuse in this composite chart to either warn me or put my mind at ease?

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Unread 10-07-2019, 06:51 AM
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Re: Abuse in Composite

Keep in mind that sometimes our inner instincts are a tool for us to have that insight that our conscious mind is avoiding.
The composite shows how the relationship plays out between you two, but you should also have a close look at the synastry to see where the aspects are coming from.
Are both of the birth times accurate?
In the composite Saturn opposes Chiron on the MH/IC axis, squaring the ascendent/descendent.
Descendent ruler mars opposes sun, in the 2nd/8th houses, of self esteem and sexual matters.
Venus near the north node is a nice love contact, it also squares Juno and sextiles the vertex.
Nessus squares neptune.
Try doing the chart with some of these additional asteroids, like 157 Dejanaira (sexual and emotional abuse), 6157 Prey, 118230 Sado, 288 128 Nemesis.
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Unread 10-07-2019, 09:30 AM
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Re: Abuse in Composite

Yes the birth times are accurate.
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Unread 10-07-2019, 10:20 AM
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Re: Abuse in Composite

Thank you, now we get a much more complete picture, don't we?
If you would like to brush up on the meaning and influence of some of these asteroids, here is a well written blog you might find helpful: https://eldermountaindreaming.com/20...-through-pain/

So in the composite we see Prey, Sado and Nessus lining up and squaring the Moon's Nodes/Uranus/Neptune. Dejanira opposes mars. You confirmed the birth times, so there is Saturn opposing Chiron, square the Ascendent /Descendent axis.
Looking at the synastry, on the positive you have that lovely sun/moon conjunction and sun/mercury trine. You do comunicate well and feel good together on a basic emotional level.
Saturn on your sun and North node could be repressive, but Saturn is also your descendent co-ruler so at the same time it is a tie that you instinctively accept.
Mars sextile mars puts you both on the same track, and the Venus/North node/Jupiter conjunction is touched off by your Pluto, again attraction, compulsion.
When we look at the asteroids, Prey starts to take center stage, they are in opposition to each other and fall on the moon/saturn/neptune opposition axis. His exactly squares your moon.
Then we have your sado/nessus on his Chiron.
Your Nemesis/Dejanira squares your sun/nodes opposing Juno, which also sheds light on what you yourself as an individual have to work on before entering any relationship, and his Saturn/Vertex lines up with this, setting it off.
Consider carefully his mercury conjunct his Sado as a general character trait.
I would suggest you read up on these asteroids, and evaluate what you would like to receive from this relationship, what positive aspects there are that will help you grow, and then put them on the scale with the rest.
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Unread 10-07-2019, 03:22 PM
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Thank you ElenaJ. I will look into the meaning of the asteroids.

I I actually made a bit of an error posting the charts. I am the outside wheel. So it's my Saturn conjunct his sun and his North Node.

In his chart alone he has Pluto Square his ascendant and descendant axis. He also has Pluto opposed to Mars with a 5-degree orb. In synastry we have his Pluto conducting my nessus, my Venus, my North Node, and trining my moon
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Unread 10-07-2019, 03:47 PM
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Re: Abuse in Composite

That will make the reading a little confusing for you, but the concepts still hold. I had given more insight into what I thought was your chart, which is in reality his, but no problem.
Reading up, pay special attention to Prey, which is important in this synastry, and also to the mercury/Sado conjunction, which we now see is yours.
You may come closer to understanding why you had been in an abusive relationship, and why you are risking it again. What is it that you need to work out in your psyche to avoid these contacts and seek out more fulfilling and healthier relationships? Soul searching.
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Unread 10-07-2019, 04:14 PM
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Re: Abuse in Composite

Do you have a brother who is/was abusive?

Im asking because of Mars in 2nd house. And it would certainly amplify the chances of your partner being similiar.

I wouldn't want to continue my analysis if this is wrong.
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Unread 10-07-2019, 05:24 PM
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Re: Abuse in Composite

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Do you have a brother who is/was abusive?

Im asking because of Mars in 2nd house. And it would certainly amplify the chances of your partner being similiar.

I wouldn't want to continue my analysis if this is wrong.
If she is the outer red planets, her ascendent is late Capricorn with mars on the descendent, not the 2nd house.
It's actually a little confusing, maybe she could re-post the chart with herself in the inner circle?
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Re: Abuse in Composite

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Do you have a brother who is/was abusive?

Im asking because of Mars in 2nd house. And it would certainly amplify the chances of your partner being similiar.

I wouldn't want to continue my analysis if this is wrong.
I have a brother but we werent raised together so he wasnt abusive to me. I dont actually know if he is abusive or not. I would assume he has some tendencies but I did not experience them
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Re: Abuse in Composite

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I have a brother but we werent raised together so he wasnt abusive to me. I dont actually know if he is abusive or not. I would assume he has some tendencies but I did not experience them
Why would you then assume so

Yeah sorry, Mars isn't in the 2nd house. So it would be a lucky guess anyway. Instead it's in the 6th house of enemies and duty xD

Perhaps your boyfriend ought to be your enemy
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