What aspects determine you having bad parents??

Laineydreamer21

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Hi,

Just wondering what are the astrological markers for having a hard time with parents, in all kinds of situations??
 

Sweet Pea

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Sun or Moon in bad aspect to Saturn or the outer planets (Uranus, Neptune, Pluto) or even Chiron.

Pluto or Saturn in the 4th or 10th houses and especially if badly aspected, or the rulers of this 4th-10th parental axis are badly aspected.

It depends a lot on what you call 'bad'.

Moon-Uranus for example could be a negligent, unnurturing Mum.

Sun-Neptune could be an alcoholic Dad always disappearing to the pub.

Moon-Pluto could be a smothering Mum who never lets you decide what you get to do, but is overbearing in her advice and dictates your life to you.
 

Laineydreamer21

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Sun or Moon in bad aspect to Saturn or the outer planets (Uranus, Neptune, Pluto) or even Chiron.

Pluto or Saturn in the 4th or 10th houses and especially if badly aspected, or the rulers of this 4th-10th parental axis are badly aspected.

It depends a lot on what you call 'bad'.

Moon-Uranus for example could be a negligent, unnurturing Mum.

Sun-Neptune could be an alcoholic Dad always disappearing to the pub.

Moon-Pluto could be a smothering Mum who never lets you decide what you get to do, but is overbearing in her advice and dictates your life to you.

Well I've got basically all those aspects so that explains a lot 😄 thank you for replying
 

Cupid Arrow

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Sun or Moon in bad aspect to Saturn or the outer planets (Uranus, Neptune, Pluto) or even Chiron.

Pluto or Saturn in the 4th or 10th houses and especially if badly aspected, or the rulers of this 4th-10th parental axis are badly aspected.

It depends a lot on what you call 'bad'.

Moon-Uranus for example could be a negligent, unnurturing Mum.

Sun-Neptune could be an alcoholic Dad always disappearing to the pub.

Moon-Pluto could be a smothering Mum who never lets you decide what you get to do, but is overbearing in her advice and dictates your life to you.

I read somewhere that Moon- Uranus means not having a mother that was unconventional and probably always thinking about the future, mind on other things instead.
 

waybread

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Your chart shows your *experience* of your parents. You would need to look at their charts to understand their parenting issues.

Generally some difficult planets in our ruling your 4th house (of home and early childhood conditioning) are diagnostic.

Pluto opposite sun (Dad) or conjunct moon (Mom) in your chart are other indicators.

Neptune rules addictions, which is an increasing problem in today's homes.

But note that siblings of the same parents typically have different charts and different experiences of the parents. So your chart alone isn't a complete picture.
 
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