Yes, I meant natal planet when I said natal point.
Being born when and where you were, such that houses are so skewed, I would urge you just to take a peek at your natal chart from a whole sign perspective. It really makes it interesting, changes it up.
It puts the eclipse in the 8th house/sign, so the
results of relationship, rather than focusing on relationship itself. And Venus is in the 11th, the house of trust and friendships.
So at the time of the eclipse, Sun will have moved to the 20th degree of Cancer over the last two or so days. Moon comes along the day of the perfection of the eclipse to square Mars, Pluto, then Venus. Then, through Venus' sextile to Mercury and at the actual degree of the eclipse, Moon activates Mercury.
And you know me: I don't place a lot of weight on the outers, since none of us can actually grasp
transpersonal influences, and, secondly, there is still debate as to whether Pluto even possesses the substance of a planet. [And I say this with a natal Pluto-Saturn-Moon-Mars conjunction; I don't say it lightly.] So I would take Pluto out of the flow, out of the equation for a while.
And when I do, what I see here is an important opportunity based in the richness and support of your friendship community. If we see your Venus in the 11th, with the 11th ruled by Venus in her dignity, and also ruling and conjoining Mars in Libra, this looks like an important opportunity for you to reconsider and reshape friendship [11th] and relationship [Venus conjoining Mars], all as an outcome or product of relationships [8th] that you have experienced heretofore. And then Mercury is activated, and
you get it!
So that through friendship and the wisdom and experience that you have gained from past relationships, you have the opportunity to gain some clarity [
if you are paying attention
] and things may become more grounded and supporting in your life....?
I will say that you may need to be watching for the flow of events [in a relaxed and joyful way, not being paranoid], since this is a square. And in accord with the nature of the square, the relevant events/realizations may come out of nowhere. But in my experience, eclipses may be highly transformational, with the solar/new moon eclipse accompanying new beginnings and energy to shape or reshape matters. And the lunar/full moon eclipse accompanying illumination followed by movement toward release.
This one is a new moon, so full of energy to create and sustain new beginnings surrounding friendship and trust, and supported with the personal strength of Venus in Libra.
And don't just wait for this to happen to you. With the elements discussed here, you may want to look creatively at your life and use the eclipse energies to help you begin to reshape and sustain your friendship/relational life in a new way.
Perhaps this is just the perfect time?