I'm mostly referring to the facial hair (beard), and the I-go-where-I-want hair. Not surprising that he is overly sensitive...both benefics are in right square to the Ascendant by sign, both are in a feminine sign, and both are compromised zodiacally (one is exiled, the other is fallen). Okay, if he isn't overly-generous, I guess that's due to Jupiter being direct, not retrograde.
As for his depression...in all the charts I've seen where a life-giver (Sun, Moon, Ascendant ruler, Fortune and Lunation) is in the 12th sign, all of them experience depression or suffering of some kind. In this case, his Sun is in the 12th, and that is consistent with my experience. However, I have only seen 4 of such charts, so it may be a coincidence.
Your chart that you posted recently on the other thread also has a life-giver in the 12th sign (the Sun again). Do you have any depression or suffering of some kind? Otherwise, some kind of isolation?
I think you probably do not realise it though. Given the strong Saturn in your chart, you seem like a person capable of facing great adversities.
Anyway, if this good-looking guy is your brother and not your ex-husband/boyfriend or cousin etc, I think both the Sun's common position points towards the condition of your father. Probably your father had financial difficulties or suffered chronic depression or illnesses...something of that sort.