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Would be useful to have the results - it is now February 2019
Hi,finally i got the results today,i passed the practical part,so it's success but "job" not finished yet,i have to pass the theoritical part which is more difficult and need more preparation.

Thanx for the reading,finally it was near positive not so sure,but finally positive.


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Unread 02-28-2019, 08:05 PM
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How you overcome your own fears with success?
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How you overcome your own fears with success?
Find something, just one thing you're naturally good at. Doesn't have to anything really impressive to others, but something you enjoy.
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Find something, just one thing you're naturally good at. Doesn't have to anything really impressive to others, but something you enjoy.

I can imagine to play electric guitar,melodic stuff but is not something i can do now,time passed for this choice.Going gym feels too boring and lonely.
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Can you see in my chart when fears and insecurities will fade away?
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Can you see in my chart when fears and insecurities will fade away?
Saturn is currently conjunct your natal Mars at 20 degrees Capricorn. Very scary!
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Saturn is currently conjunct your natal Mars at 20 degrees Capricorn. Very scary!
Explain further,what is scary and how to deal with it.
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Explain further,what is scary and how to deal with it.
They bring out the worst in each other. Saturn can use Mars against you. Wait it out. It helps just knowing what the problem is.
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They bring out the worst in each other. Saturn can use Mars against you. Wait it out. It helps just knowing what the problem is.
Who the hell is Saturn and why is against me? I've done nothing to Saturn.
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Who the hell is Saturn and why is against me? I've done nothing to Saturn.
Don't take it personally. Saturn's everyone's problem. Some handle it better than others, but nobody really wins out in the end.
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Don't take it personally. Saturn's everyone's problem. Some handle it better than others, but nobody really wins out in the end.
I don't know how to use energies,but i need a solution to fight Saturn.
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I don't know how to use energies,but i need a solution to fight Saturn.
Saturn rewards resistance. Resisting fear is resisting Saturn.
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So what's next??
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So what's next??
Stay balanced.
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Stay balanced.
Saturn should be eliminated after a period.Fear will not fade away,most women see that fearfull on me and critisizing negative.It's the self insecurities that wins.For gods shake,Saturn set me free.
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Unread 06-18-2019, 01:34 PM
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I fear,I'm fearful.Tell me why.
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Because of Double Virgo. (I'm one too (Sun/Moon)

This sign see all the details, also as the flaws.
Originaly this ability is here, because Virgo role is to improve things, and correct what needs to be, to reach something very good and skilled. But if you never try to improve nothing, you experience anxiety because you can't stop thinking. So, you focus on what's lacking, but not what is the goal to reach and how to do it. What matters is to find some solutions, try all you can, and don't even stop until you've find the key to escape your situation.

I suggest you to do the "21 days things" Ardentika told you on page 6 (of the thread "struggling in every possible area"). Because I did it and it helped me a lot with the depression I had. It was a part of my solution.

When you're thinking something bad about you (example : 'I'm a looser"), understand that you don't wanna think that. Then, chose to replace it by something neutral or positive. (example : "I am able to change"/"My situation is not my identity"/this is not my real thought" etc..).
Even if you don't really believe it today. The more you will do it, the more you'll start to believe it, until it will become your own truth. Your perception of things, life, and yourself. But you have to do it everyday and don't give up

Maybe you believe this technique is bullsh*t, but no. It's a psychological known thing about how subconscious mind works. You just have to replace your thoughts to create automatical new ones.

The first thing I was thinking about when I woke up during a decade was "I wanna die, life is worthless".
Now, I like life, and I think nothing is impossible if we always keep trying

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Unread 06-22-2019, 12:25 PM
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21 days of thinking positive? Dunno,it feels hard.I'll give it a try but not many possibilities.
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Unread 06-22-2019, 03:21 PM
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It's not so hard as you think. I succeeded, and before that I was like you : Very depressed, I couldn't see hope or optimism anywhere, and I was a really really pessimistic person. If I succeeded, while I was so stucked and feeling weak, it mean it's not hard, and you can do it too.

the most you think about an idea, the most you make a feeling grow.
This is how you can create a positive feeling. At the starting point, it's just an intellectual seed , a phrase with some words, nothing emotionnal. But if you give it a lot of attention, imagination and time, it will grow as a new feeling. The most you give it thoses ressources, the most it will be deep and strong. This is why your negative thoughts are strong.

You are already in a difficult situation. So, blaming and hurting youself with guilt and hopelessness phrases won't never help you. When you do that, you're feeding them with your own vitality, your light.
You know, I didn't tried this "21 days things" because I had the hope that it work. I did it, because I had nothing to lose. You'll succeed. You don't have to think 100% positive things for 21 days. Just do it with a few phrases. (at least 5, for example.)

Start to recognize them when they come.
You think “I'm a loser”. And what? Is this thought useful? Do it deserve a lot of your time, or attention, or mindspace? No, so, you replace it everytime. This is your situation that s*cks, but your situation is not your identity. Don't give your time and your attention to this feeling. Let him alone. Cut this motherf*cker off. Let it die. This is what it deserve, and nothing else.

Recognize your bad thoughts and when they come. Then, say «ok, this is an automatic thought. It's useless (because It won't help me)». When you're doing this, your conscious analyze your subconscious, and teach him how to fix itself.

If you replace them or just say "This is not my thought" and do something else or think something else each time, you'll end by creating a little bug. Until the circuit doesn't work automatically. The roots of this automatic pattern will be broken, and not enough strong to survive. Because they will die by hungerness. Naturally

Another thing to know, is that in a same precise situation or action, same thought will come each times.

When I was hopeless, I had the image of walls around me in my head. So, each time, my next automatic thought was to imagine me hurting myself (my body), because I felt so much guilt or ashamed to be stucked. Then, I realized it was an automatic thought, I choosed to take the habit of imagining me throwing knives and swords in the wall. Because I don't wanna use my anger to destroy myself anymore.. So I rather prefer to imagine destroy something else.
This is a “neutral” strategy to redirect the feeling, when the feeling is binded to an image. Bad against bad. Anger against fear can win. It doesn't carry the stuckedness energy. It's a movement energy, that can transform into motivation. And today, If I'm imagining this wall, it's so broken that I can step over it. I'm able to see what is behind.


All you have to do, is to understand what I said, and to try. It will works, because it's a practical solution. What Virgo likes.

Play some guitar or do other new activities, and feed it with your time and attention. All you have to do, is to invite other positive or neutral things to enter into your mind. If something else has all your attention and time, the bad side won't have enough to stay. Focus on the solutions researchs and actions you can do to change your life, not on the problem.

You're a lot stronger than you think.
I believe in you.

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Unread 06-24-2019, 02:50 PM
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My problem with these suggestions,are the lack of motivation and lack of pleasure,I want to feel I'm in a team of friends doing together activities we like,but not boring stuff routine like gym or playing a hobby.I mean vacations,traveling,my job now is not allowed me much Free time to do some things like lessons for electric guitar.

I have to make a serious recovery plan for basic things such as healing techniques,meditation techniques,life coaching,communication coaching,psychological mood and boost tricks,nutrition etc.

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Unread 06-25-2019, 12:02 AM
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Change your job > meet new people that can become your friends

I'll give you all my double virgo recovery plan if you're interested. Including some of the things you said

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Change your job > meet new people that can become your friends

I'll give you all my double virgo recovery plan if you're interested. Including some of the things you said
I want to change my current job for a better one,but this chance still has not come to me.Sent me private for the plan.
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I'll send it tommorow (need time to not forget important things)
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