SagSunScorpioMoon
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Hi All,
I've recently met a guy on an online dating site.
He's tall, he decent looking, he's got a good job, there is just one problem - his personality is a huge turn-off.
He's about the most clingy guy I've met - texts me non stop all day, from the moment I open my eyes in the morning until late at night - I have to say Good night twice to get him to call it a day.
I don't understand why he is so "desperate". As I said, he's not bad-looking, he's got a really good job and he lives in a nice area, it shouldn't be hard for him to get a girlfriend.
We met up for a quick drink one night (he drove all the way from the other side of the town to my area), I found him quite boring in person, and even more boring in texts - he annoys the hell out of me because even though he's boring, he tries to be interesting. He's also 4 years younger than me but he acts like he's much, much younger (immature).
On the other hand, he does seem like he wants a relationship, and I think he might be able to offer me more than the guy I've been seen on and off.
I'm going to meet him again tonight (at his insistence - I'm not looking forward to it I have to be honest).
I've cast a chart. My question is: Should I give him a chance? Will this turn into a meaningful relationship?
I am Saturn in Scorpio, in strong dignities of Mars. My co-significator is the Moon in Aquarius, in the Detriment of Sun - not surprised as I'm totally turned off by this guy.
He is the Sun who's just entered Scorpio, about to conjoin Saturn (ewwww! I hope it doesn't mean we'll have sex soon because that's a slightly scary thought!)
I've also noticed that Moon will soon change sign and enter Pisces where it will trine Saturn (another Ewww!)
The Part of Marriage falls at Sag 17, deposited by Jupiter - not looking good!
Also notice that Saturn is combust - his (Sun) non-stop texting is driving me nuts!
I know a lot of you guys are probably thinking, if you dislike the guy so much, why even bother casting a chart? Stop seeing him and the problem is solved! But the way I see it is that, despite being clingy and boring, he's got a good job and he might be a nice guy. I just don't want to let a good chance pass by.
Thanks so much for your help
I've recently met a guy on an online dating site.
He's tall, he decent looking, he's got a good job, there is just one problem - his personality is a huge turn-off.
He's about the most clingy guy I've met - texts me non stop all day, from the moment I open my eyes in the morning until late at night - I have to say Good night twice to get him to call it a day.
I don't understand why he is so "desperate". As I said, he's not bad-looking, he's got a really good job and he lives in a nice area, it shouldn't be hard for him to get a girlfriend.
We met up for a quick drink one night (he drove all the way from the other side of the town to my area), I found him quite boring in person, and even more boring in texts - he annoys the hell out of me because even though he's boring, he tries to be interesting. He's also 4 years younger than me but he acts like he's much, much younger (immature).
On the other hand, he does seem like he wants a relationship, and I think he might be able to offer me more than the guy I've been seen on and off.
I'm going to meet him again tonight (at his insistence - I'm not looking forward to it I have to be honest).
I've cast a chart. My question is: Should I give him a chance? Will this turn into a meaningful relationship?
I am Saturn in Scorpio, in strong dignities of Mars. My co-significator is the Moon in Aquarius, in the Detriment of Sun - not surprised as I'm totally turned off by this guy.
He is the Sun who's just entered Scorpio, about to conjoin Saturn (ewwww! I hope it doesn't mean we'll have sex soon because that's a slightly scary thought!)
I've also noticed that Moon will soon change sign and enter Pisces where it will trine Saturn (another Ewww!)
The Part of Marriage falls at Sag 17, deposited by Jupiter - not looking good!
Also notice that Saturn is combust - his (Sun) non-stop texting is driving me nuts!
I know a lot of you guys are probably thinking, if you dislike the guy so much, why even bother casting a chart? Stop seeing him and the problem is solved! But the way I see it is that, despite being clingy and boring, he's got a good job and he might be a nice guy. I just don't want to let a good chance pass by.
Thanks so much for your help
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