wan
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Hello. I am faced with a difficult decision, and I call on the power of horary to help me decide.
Background: I have a serious crush on my manager at work. We are definitely not close or anything (I have only been working with him for a little over a month). We would sometimes talk, but most of the time it's strictly business.
Last time I worked with him, I kind of got the sense that he was hinting at me to get away from him. I think that he has a girlfriend and that he wants nothing to do with me. And then, on another day when I was working with someone else, I had a very unpleasant time with this person. I really did not want to have to work with this person again but there was no escaping it, because my manager needed someone to work Tuesday.
So, I decided it was best to just quit. I handed in my 2 weeks' notice. Now, I got an email from my manager, who was essentially asking me to stay. He also said that I would not have to work on Tuesdays anymore (now I could completely avoid that guy that I hated working with). But I am really torn, I am not sure if I should stay or not. Even if I got to work with my manager, he most likely has a gf and I would feel like I was wasting my time.
I have cast a horary chart asking whether I should stay with this job, or if I should go. I took a cursory look at it, and it didn't look very good. Significator of 1st house in the 12th. This is bad, right? I am guessing the answer is I should go. But I still want to hear from the experts. Can someone please tell me whether I should quit this job or not? I need to decide by this Saturday, that's when I am working with my manager. I will need to give him a definite answer. Thanks.
Background: I have a serious crush on my manager at work. We are definitely not close or anything (I have only been working with him for a little over a month). We would sometimes talk, but most of the time it's strictly business.
Last time I worked with him, I kind of got the sense that he was hinting at me to get away from him. I think that he has a girlfriend and that he wants nothing to do with me. And then, on another day when I was working with someone else, I had a very unpleasant time with this person. I really did not want to have to work with this person again but there was no escaping it, because my manager needed someone to work Tuesday.
So, I decided it was best to just quit. I handed in my 2 weeks' notice. Now, I got an email from my manager, who was essentially asking me to stay. He also said that I would not have to work on Tuesdays anymore (now I could completely avoid that guy that I hated working with). But I am really torn, I am not sure if I should stay or not. Even if I got to work with my manager, he most likely has a gf and I would feel like I was wasting my time.
I have cast a horary chart asking whether I should stay with this job, or if I should go. I took a cursory look at it, and it didn't look very good. Significator of 1st house in the 12th. This is bad, right? I am guessing the answer is I should go. But I still want to hear from the experts. Can someone please tell me whether I should quit this job or not? I need to decide by this Saturday, that's when I am working with my manager. I will need to give him a definite answer. Thanks.
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