Hi there! We´re unhappily together after two years now...
Thank you so much for responding. What would you say is keeping you two together?
In my situation, I've met two men whose Liliths were conjunct my Saturn & South Node in my Scorpio 4th house. One man's Lilith was conjunct his Uranus. I'd say both of them became distractions/restrictions to me in 4th house matters. I think one was using spells and was draining me energetically after we became intimate and stopped talking (the Lilth conjunct Uranus in Scorpio) and the other (Lilith in Scorpio) was a long distance romance until I discovered that he had a family and a sex addiction. He and I were never intimate, but it took me years to get over him. I went into a dark depression. The Lilith/ Uranus guy came at a time when I was about to make some big moves and I got thrown off and distracted... made poor choices like staying out with him instead of getting rest to be focused the next day.
I was VERY physically attracted to both men, which doesn't happen to me very often... I'm not easily impressed. But it was something about their personality, although neither treated me how I'd normally require to be treated - it's as if I was more lenient because the attraction was so strong... Very lustful. Definitely temptations that took me on a detour on my journey. Both of them were "the Devil" card in tarot.