redwolf481
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Shining Ray said:Opposites attract . If you really cannot get in touch with her, maybe it is best to begin to let her go and move on. You are moving to England and you need to move with everything cleared in your head, now is the time to tie up loose ends or you will find yourself in knots. Obviously this is an unresolved relationship. If you can contact this girl it would be good as you will see what her feelings are after all this time, maybe she has moved on. This may be deeply painful for you, but in one way it allows you to kind of mourn for the love you have lost and move on.
I do feel if something is meant to be it will happen, particularly with relationships. If you are meant to have a relationship with someone for a certain length of time it happens, if not there can be an initial relationship but it tends to fade out. Enjoy the memories, I have had relationships were I thought there could be something more and then the person is either uninterested or just turns completely cold on me. I had this experience with a Plutonian once, and I was quite upset how he turned nasty and then when I finally let it go and moved on he came knocking on my door. I had already moved on by then and I was happy with my partner. Relationships are often like this.
Tie up loose ends, and resolve this issue if will give you a clean slate ready for your move.
i am a plutonian...(pluto in scorpio in the first house, trine the sun, mercury,mars opposite venus and moon which are both in the 8th house)and sextile neptune.. my second most powerful planet is venus(libra rising venus in taurus, sextile mercury and mars...venus is conjunct the moon and square jupiter....and trine neptune.......
my pluto is conjunct her venus in scorpio conjunct pluto in scorpio by 1 degree in her 8th house my mars is exactly trine her venus(her pluto is opposite my venus too but by a wider degree...and her mars trines my venus too but by a wider degreee) we have node and saturn contacts(i think
)...her chiron falls on my sun......
i found this recently in linda goodman's forum
In Relationship Signs, Linda says that if one person´s venus is conjunct with another´s pluto, that indicates Twin Souls or Soul Mates, people who were once the same individual, one half being the male half and the other the female. They have an innate longing for the other and, from lifetime to lifetime, the unite to feel the joy of completion
In synasty, aspects are usually +/- 1 degree. Therefore as fast as Venus moves through the charts, not as many Venus's are conjunct Pluto as you might expect.
Venus Conjunct Pluto indicates a strong, intense, romantic, sexual attraction between the two of you. This aspect indicates that your relationship will have a regenerative effect on you the both of you. There will be a mutual appreciation of spiritual and artistic values
Linda also talks about the trine as a sign for Twin Souls... She only says that the conjunction is much more powerful...
With the trine (or sextile), the pair of you may choose to wait until another incarnation to reunite even when mutual feelings will be very intense... With the conjunction, postponement is very unlikely.
According to Linda that´s a powerful sign that the both of you could be Twin Souls! I don´t think one of you feels that more intensely than the other... Those aspects affect you as a couple... I don´t know enough though, maybe the Pluto in conjunction is more aware of it, feels it more... But anyway, you probably tied for eternity, and even someone (or something) tries to come between yo and appears to succeed temporarily, wait. You´ll be back together no matter what as if you had been bounced back by a mysterious force... That´s what Linda says...
Your combination is what the author calls “double whammy” for that special karmic sign: powerful Pluto (rebirth) and Venus (love). Have you got any other karmic conections? Remember that aspects have to be really close... One or two degrees apart at the most...
this is exactly how i feel