Golden
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I met someone and I can’t tell if he’s switching up on me or slowing down.
At first he wanted to rush it, full speed ahead, it seemed. Matter of fact, I stopped talking to him for that very reason. Even though he is very easy on the eyes it was on my nerves. He was pouting and I felt being just a bit mean, because he couldn’t see me when he wanted to. He said he wasn’t mean, and once I spent more time around him, I found that to be true. He was actually appearing to be a nice guy But now im confused...
I reconnected with him a few weeks later to see if he was still pouting. He said he wasn’t mean, and after I spent more time around him, I found that to be true. He asked If I would consider a serious relationship with him, and would I have time for him. I said we will see.
I went with the flow and hung out with his family and friends. Had some much needed fun.
FF to a few weeks ago to now. It seems as if he has really slowed down, not as intense as he was. I told him if he didn’t see anything serious, that’s cool. No pressure. But he won’t stop calling me. If I don’t pick up, he will call or text.
If something is bothering me, then he fixes it. Such as turning off football and paying attention to me more.
He’s not seeing anyone else. I know bc I’m always there and he’s always available. It doesn’t matter to me as of right now, since things have simmered down to me. This has been a short period of time as well. My Virgo ASC is kicking in.
So I’m moving to the city he lives in. I’d like to know what’s going on with us. I feel he is possibly pretending and not in to me, even though I told him no pressure. He hasn’t given me a direct answer. Or is he being a reserved Capricorn? Also has a few Scorpio placements (Venus and Mars) so is he observing me?
And why does this chart have a late ascendant? Does the moon show me moving there and there will be a change once I move?
Im confused and can keep it moving if need be.
The question asked was: “Where is Jay and my relationship going?”
At first he wanted to rush it, full speed ahead, it seemed. Matter of fact, I stopped talking to him for that very reason. Even though he is very easy on the eyes it was on my nerves. He was pouting and I felt being just a bit mean, because he couldn’t see me when he wanted to. He said he wasn’t mean, and once I spent more time around him, I found that to be true. He was actually appearing to be a nice guy But now im confused...
I reconnected with him a few weeks later to see if he was still pouting. He said he wasn’t mean, and after I spent more time around him, I found that to be true. He asked If I would consider a serious relationship with him, and would I have time for him. I said we will see.
I went with the flow and hung out with his family and friends. Had some much needed fun.
FF to a few weeks ago to now. It seems as if he has really slowed down, not as intense as he was. I told him if he didn’t see anything serious, that’s cool. No pressure. But he won’t stop calling me. If I don’t pick up, he will call or text.
If something is bothering me, then he fixes it. Such as turning off football and paying attention to me more.
He’s not seeing anyone else. I know bc I’m always there and he’s always available. It doesn’t matter to me as of right now, since things have simmered down to me. This has been a short period of time as well. My Virgo ASC is kicking in.
So I’m moving to the city he lives in. I’d like to know what’s going on with us. I feel he is possibly pretending and not in to me, even though I told him no pressure. He hasn’t given me a direct answer. Or is he being a reserved Capricorn? Also has a few Scorpio placements (Venus and Mars) so is he observing me?
And why does this chart have a late ascendant? Does the moon show me moving there and there will be a change once I move?
Im confused and can keep it moving if need be.
The question asked was: “Where is Jay and my relationship going?”