jbschirtzinger
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I agree with you. You said this so economically... I would have wasted words on it!
I'm glad you appreciated it! I do try to cultivate saying more with less in most instances.
I agree with you. You said this so economically... I would have wasted words on it!
People those have Uranus in the 7th wouldn't settle for one relationship they will be constantly move from one to another as they tend to lose interest. Uranus being quite erratic, when initial glitter fades away and individual come to the raw hard reality of life individual seems to lose the interest, Individuals with Uranus want thrill , excitement in life. Sort of I have observed they seem to have a Technological relationship aka Internet relationship which may or may not be true but from my observation out of 10 relationship nearly 7 to 8 have fallen in this category. Also sometimes Uranus with 7th seems to me they would have different sort polar opposite attraction .
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MD
i have both pluto and uranus in 7th! good times. transformation through relationship is kind of hard if i just keep running away. this is my biggest battle in life. i crave the closeness, yet the freedom.
i recently met somebody i really like (despite him being the opposite of my usual type) and it's obvious the feelings are mutual. i am completely freaked out and have already tried pushing him away. he's very uranian with an aqua moon and uranus conjunct his ascendant. i don't see anything controlling in his chart or behaviour. actually, he is super mellow and this throws me off. this hasn't even gotten off the ground, and i'm already worried about getting stuck. i think this is uranus in 7th.
Probably the super mellow guys aren't your type? You also have Pluto in the 7th and are looking for someone with plutonian & uranian qualities. Mellow guys aren't known to be fun, experimental, intense, aggressive, etc. Everytime I read the word mellow, I remember Neptune, Moon & Venus. There's perhaps nothing in him that truly attracts you. Your 7H Uranus takes full blown advantage of the situation & triggers off the 'stuck in a rut' feeling.
There's no point giving in to that feeling if you want to give this guy a chance. Every time you listen to it, the stronger it gets and you end up a lot more frustrated.
I just have Uranus myself. Course, I also got the deluxe pluto square venus aspect to make things interesting. Anyway, if you feel like you are getting stuck, odds are that there is too much pluto and not enough Uranus. Remember, the seventh house is your projection house, so it's actually your own reflection you are seeing, just the parts you don't own. Dial down your intensity and you might find the freedom you want.
I find seventh house pluto people tend to come my way often where relationships are concerned. About the time I say the words "marriage ain't gonna happen" they start to burn. If I then say something next such as "and furthermore, you aren't gonna own me" well, that's just usually enough to give them a nuclear meltdown.
Marriage vs freedom is a typical dilemma for the Pluto in Libra generation. Marriages that do not last, or if they do then the partners are allowed to cheat on each other. I'd say forget the marriage, for us this piece of paper has a lot greater potential to bring misery than happiness. Relationships are cool though, for as long as they last. Serial monogamous dating and non-formalized relationships is what I think most people will stick with.
Thank you for the comments and for the link, Munch. This is a very insightful article.I read something recently about the Pluto in Libra generation that I think sums up what's happening with us. http://www.sherastrology.com/2011/10/pluto-in-capricorn-2011-part-ii-libra/
The idea being that our generation was the one that saw the dissolution of marriages on a widespread scale. We have no real examples of 'good relationships' so we are in the unique position of creating new relationship norms. Our approach being one of cooperation and consideration of the other persons needs and ours. Compromise is NOT the name of the game any more. It's collaboration. We want people for different aspects of our lives and are coming to the realization that one primary partner is wonderful but that as we grow, we may need to move on and find new partner/teachers.
single forever will likely be pluto in house 7
My sentiments exactly! Although I will say that usually Saturn through the 7th can bring a serious relationship if someone is single. I am Aries rising too, so I have T Saturn moving through my 7th as well.
I'm not worried about U&. I also have venus in 7th so and ven in libra in the 7th so, I'm pretty sure I can handle one person for the rest of my life. Yes, I do also have Pluto in Libra but it's in my 6th house.
My concern is that I have sat conj monn and sat squre venus right now. I feel it is preventing me from being in a rel. I was dating someone on and off for 7 months. I would have loved it to be more, but he couldn't give me that. Although he cared for me and starting to fall in love with me, he had to many personal issues. He is working on issues iwth his divorce-money and child. He also has a lot of emotional issues that I think he needs to work out.
So, it's unfair! Not sure why he was brought into my life b/c I felt the same for him.
So how do I break the cycle? I think I have. I spent 2 good yrs really trying to improve myself. I am more stable and don't leave so often. I get now that I have to work thru issues and not break up with someone and that I need to speak about what's bothering me and not hold it in-until I get too fed up and leave!
With my Horary chart: It's been a yr since we broke up although we hung on to each other until Jan. That is the rel I would love to have come back for good. He was a big learning exp for me.
However, I was speaking about another guy in this posting. We have been off and on for 1.5 yrs. He is my mirror. What he did to me, I have done to others. I do care about him but I know he has to get his life together. He always pops back in-I don't chase him. We have actually ran into each other a few times which is how we had started back up again- a few times. This ended in Jan. I am surprised I haven't run into him or heard from me. In an ideal world, I'd be bitter off with him as we had a special bond. But b/c it's been so long of him not being able to commit, I can't see it happening. We have love stalluim, a golden triangle and a yod.
I'd say these 2 boys are the loves of my life.
Wow, it's like reading my own story when I read what happened with your boyfriend. I had the exact same thing happen a few weeks ago for the exact same reasons(break-up) you described! I loved this man; it's been very difficult trying to move on!! I keeping obsessing over astrology and trying to figure out if he will come back. It's no wonder it's happening since we are both Aries rising. Many people with Cardinal on their angles(Aries, Libra, Cap, Cancer) are going through and have been going through a very difficult time the past couple years. And, you also have Transiting Saturn conjuncting your Moon Libra/squaring Venus telling these are also in Cardinal signs as well. The goods news and this will confirm what Dr Farr said with your horary question, Famous astrologer Robert Hand once told me when people break-up under retrograde planets(all the outer are rx but for Uranus and that's soon to begin) AND Venus is rx(your 7th ruler), typically this means(rx) a return to a previous situations. Translation, he will be back that is if you broke up recently? Give it some time though and just back off. Based on your age, Is Uranus in your 7th house? This would mean you have a need for freedom(Ur 7th) and a need for closeness(Ven Libra 7th). They are at odds and unless you come to terms with this you will continue to project this onto the partners you date. You will not like the men who want you and the men you do want, for some reason or another they aren't available. This could be emotionally(not as interested), physically(distance) or they are in another relationship. Believe me, I am older than you and it's a heartbreaking cycle to break! I have Uranus in hard aspect to Venus, as I said my 7th ruler. The good news is, Saturn is making it's final hit to your Venus and Moon, so you won't have to deal with that any longer, however, later down the road you have T Uranus and T Pluto to think about and they WILL make you deal with these issues if you haven't by then. I have Cardinal Sun and Moon too so I have the same thing to "look" forward to.
Sorry, I made a couple errors in what I wrote in context to your natal chart. I edited it. Not sure if you will receive the one with or without the corrections? What I said about T Saturn to your Moon/Venus is what I edited. It's conjunct and square to these planets. The rest was correct in terms of what I meant to say.