how does he feel about me? (a friend)

astrobabes

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was just curious to see how this guy friend feels about me (romantically) obviously we’re friends but just curious if he is interested in me more than he says! please let me know

corrected! chart: http://ibb.co/NWKTp8z
 
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sinhtheslumberingdragon

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was just curious to see how this guy friend feels about me (romantically) obviously we’re friends but just curious if he is interested in me more than he says! please let me know

chart: http://ibb.co/z7SG19D

Do note that I am a beginner, so take whatever I say with a grain of salt.

So generally to answer such a question, we look at the receptions.

What we are interested here is: Lord 1, Lord 7, and assuming you are a woman - Venus for your sexuality, Sun of his sexuality

Lord 1 is Venus, so it cannot be used for your sexuality in this case. Also consider the exaltation lord of 1, Saturn.
Lord 7 is Mars, so the sun can be taken for his sexuality.

Mars is domiciled, so it's most interested with itself - it also exalts Sun, and is in the Triplicity of Jupiter.

Sun also exalts Mars, so this person might be a bit self absorbed - the combination of exaltation of him/sexuality is interesting but doesn't really indicate he would have romantic feelings about you.

The only testimony I could find of sexual feelings is the Sun residing in the domicile of Saturn, which is the exaltation ruler of your ascendant. However, I wouldn't take this as a yes. Perhaps there is something that you show off about yourself that makes him like you, but not necessarily you, if you understand what I am saying.

Unfortunately, it does not seem that he has particular feelings for you. Please update and let me know
 

IleneK

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was just curious to see how this guy friend feels about me (romantically) obviously we’re friends but just curious if he is interested in me more than he says! please let me know

chart: http://ibb.co/z7SG19D




When Venus was last in Sag, Mars was in Libra and Scorpio.
I am a bit confused by the planetary placements in the chart you have posted. What is the date/time/place for it?
 

sinhtheslumberingdragon

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i just realized!! i’m so sorry 😭

here is the correct chart: http://ibb.co/NWKTp8z

This is even more clear than previously.

The answer does not change. He is Saturn in the 7th. You are Sun.

Sun and Venus reside in the domiciles of Saturn, Saturn resides in its own domicile.

There is no affinity for Saturn to the Sun, so no sexual attraction. The only other planet Saturn shows affinity for is Mercury (through Triplicity), Mercury rules your 2nd and 11th houses.

Interesting to note that your Venus exalts Mars. Perhaps there is someone else you are eyeing?
 

astrobabes

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This is even more clear than previously.

The answer does not change. He is Saturn in the 7th. You are Sun.

Sun and Venus reside in the domiciles of Saturn, Saturn resides in its own domicile.

There is no affinity for Saturn to the Sun, so no sexual attraction. The only other planet Saturn shows affinity for is Mercury (through Triplicity), Mercury rules your 2nd and 11th houses.

Interesting to note that your Venus exalts Mars. Perhaps there is someone else you are eyeing?


that makes sense! i definitely view him as a friend and am comfortable around him. i would say i might be eyeing someone but nothing very solid. hopefully in the future something might come of it! we shall see :)
 

IleneK

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i just realized!! i’m so sorry ��

here is the correct chart: http://ibb.co/NWKTp8z


Since he is a friend, I would see him as ruler of the 11th, Merc and you are Sun. Regarding how he feels about you romantically, he/Merc receives you/Sun adversely, by detriment. And he/Merc separates from you/Sun.
I don't see romantic interest.
 

Almohsin

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The friend here has the eleventh house, and both of you are in the house of sex, the eighth from the eleventh, your friend's sexual relations.

But if we interpret the reception according to the classical view, here you do not desire it sexually, but you may be sexually annoyed with it.
 

astrobabes

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Since he is a friend, I would see him as ruler of the 11th, Merc and you are Sun. Regarding how he feels about you romantically, he/Merc receives you/Sun adversely, by detriment. And he/Merc separates from you/Sun.
I don't see romantic interest.


okay thank you!! good to know
 

astrobabes

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The friend here has the eleventh house, and both of you are in the house of sex, the eighth from the eleventh, your friend's sexual relations.

But if we interpret the reception according to the classical view, here you do not desire it sexually, but you may be sexually annoyed with it.

okay thats interesting makes sense tho🤭🤭 thank you
 

sinhtheslumberingdragon

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Since he is a friend, I would see him as ruler of the 11th, Merc and you are Sun. Regarding how he feels about you romantically, he/Merc receives you/Sun adversely, by detriment. And he/Merc separates from you/Sun.
I don't see romantic interest.

I'm curious, why do you use 11th for friends in general? I tend to use the 7th for friends - unless they are particularly close to the native.
 

IleneK

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I'm curious, why do you use 11th for friends in general? I tend to use the 7th for friends - unless they are particularly close to the native.

Hi, StSD.
In traditional astrology the 11th house has rulership over friends in general: supporters, benefactors and those that help us directly or behind the scenes, friendship in general. If the querent had not identified the quesited as a friend I likely would have used the 5th which rules love affairs, romance and the like, since she was asking if a friend might have romantic feelings for her.

The 7th rules marriage and all forms of partnerships. The spouse, lover and a general person enquired after, if they are not identified as a friend or romantic interest but the querent is asking about a partnership of some kind.

Here are some references that may be helpful on the 11th, 5th and 7th from a traditional horary viewpoint:
http://www.skyscript.co.uk/temples/h11.html
http://www.skyscript.co.uk/temples/h5.html
http://www.skyscript.co.uk/temples/h7.html
 
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