Venus square Saturn

Love2Know

Love2Know

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midnight sun said:
I am bored, too and I turned my attention to other things I enjoy in life.

I think Saturn-Venus aspects are also about creativity, right? We can also talk about how it effects our creative life? For example, I am afraid to create even when I am by myself. I never like things I create. So I can't show myself like other people. This is the aspect of losing forever...It's like living in a jail without any help. Because I need to express myself through creativity but I'm afraid to do it. I force myself but it feels like I'm forcing a locked box for opening.
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Yeah but it also depends on other aspects within the chart, I have a jun trine sun and I always get a lot of help from people.. So I dunno I also like a lot of encouragement. Also look at the signs in hard aspect as well as their houses and other aspects those signs are in. I do not think this 1 aspect is so horrible as people may believe. Charts can also balance themselves out, or more specifically we can balance ourselves out and our greatest weakness can become our greatest strength.
 
midnight sun

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Love2Know said:
Yeah but it also depends on other aspects within the chart, I have a jun trine sun and I always get a lot of help from people.. So I dunno I also like a lot of encouragement. Also look at the signs in hard aspect as well as their houses and other aspects those signs are in. I do not think this 1 aspect is so horrible as people may believe. Charts can also balance themselves out, or more specifically we can balance ourselves out and our greatest weakness can become our greatest strength.
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Mine is balanced with Mercury conj. MC. It makes a triangle of sextiles to Saturn-Venus-Jupiter triangle. I mean there are two triangles. One is bad, one is good. :D Probably I have to improve the good one for feeling the other's worst sides. I feel it inherently, I feel if I have good career which makes me happy and satisfied, I will feel the pain of others lesser than before. You're right, we need to find the balance point.
 
Love2Know

Love2Know

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midnight sun said:
Mine is balanced with Mercury conj. MC. It makes a triangle of sextiles to Saturn-Venus-Jupiter triangle. I mean there are two triangles. One is bad, one is good. :D Probably I have to improve the good one for feeling the other's worst sides. I feel it inherently, I feel if I have good career which makes me happy and satisfied, I will feel the pain of others lesser than before. You're right, we need to find the balance point.
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spacecadet

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you cant generalise about a person from this one aspect. Love2Know - you're venus is in a strong position (conj asc) so you're gonna have a completely different experience to a woman whose venus is afflicted.
 
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ok... a lot of people have posted in this thread. perhaps my take on it may echo some other people's but might as well.

now you said you have scorpio venus... well, yikes. no wonder there's a ton of insecurities. scorpio venus is the stalker, possessive venus that wants to own every inch of their mate for eternity. having leo saturn doesn't help either as from what i understand, saturn loves wreaking havoc in leo. the leo saturn generation has insecurities about NOT having control over others. i also find that people w natal venus square saturn tend to be very unaccepting and nitpicky about their mates' occupation. it's like no matter what the other person does, it's not good enough, it's never good enough. it's like having the inability to not get over minor details about the mate's imperfections and letting it fester until everything explodes into smithereens. i've also noticed women with this aspect tend to not love men who take care of them and completely mistake the men's caring for manipulation or control. i don't know if that's you, but i have a few friends with this particular aspect and it's been a pattern of such behavior.

i love saturn, i wouldn't ever blame saturn for causing anything that would REALISTICALLY flop from the get go. it's your venus that's the downer. try doing things to resolve your venus issues.

is there a solution to all this? yes, of course. for someone with jupiter and saturn conj asc... i will say "just let it go." stop allowing the minor little imperfects grow into flesh eating viruses. stop holding onto past inflictions and allowing that to cloud the present conditions and further delaying possible future progress. how do you do that? with practice, slowly, gradually, and over time, it will get less and less tense. if you're going to keep holding onto the past like it happened yesterday, well, there's no hope for anything better.
 
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midnight sun

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But if we live the same "negative" thing over and over, how can we have hope for the future? We need to remember the past for proctecting ourselves. Because there is not just one or two mistakes in the past, my whole past is a mistake. I have to remember them everyday. When I said I've changed and looked positive to life, the same things began to happen again. That's a rule.

But there must be a "fear point" I believe. Once I saw a dream about a fear circle. I was going in a bus and found a nice, original book called "human design"(it's a sembolic one), I was very excited with it. But then, the bus changed its way to an unknown road and I feared so went down from the bus. I walked into a place which I knew very well before but a spider hung on to my leg. (which is a symbol of depression for me) I hardly threw it.

So this dream showed me the point which the repetation circle begins. And I have a feeling that this fear point is "being rejected" for the Saturn-Venus people.
 
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Love2Know

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midnight sun said:
But if we live the same "negative" thing over and over, how can we have hope for the future? We need to remember the past for proctecting ourselves. Because there is not just one or two mistakes in the past, my whole past is a mistake. I have to remember them everyday. When I said I've changed and looked positive to life, the same things began to happen again. That's a rule.

But there must be a "fear point" I believe. Once I saw a dream about a fear circle. I was going in a bus and found a nice, original book called "human design"(it's a sembolic one), I was very excited with it. But then, the bus changed its way to an unknown road and I feared so went down from the bus. I walked into a place which I knew very well before but a spider hung on to my leg. (which is a symbol of depression for me) I hardly threw it.

So this dream showed me the point which the repetation circle begins. And I have a feeling that this fear point is "being rejected" for the Saturn-Venus people.
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Yeah I dunno I don't mind a little rejection. People always told me I was very good at messing with guys, you can get them to be thinking of you is the first step. Lollll Well I do have this aspect it is just in between sag and leo, so the signs are in harmony. Also my saturn is retrograde that could make a difference maybe! I am not very nit picky not openly. Also I tell myself to shut up when I am this way mentally. I am more harsh on myself than others. Though, I guess its the venus conjunct asc moon which makes me appear very pleasant and laid back to others. I can be a little stress ball inside, have a bit of a bad temper but I guess only people very very close to me would see this but not everyone would agree I do. Yeah I dunno its not that bad my nit pickyness, I am not a very judgmental nor superficial person. I am actually very accepting unless I sense bad intentions or foul pay. Rejection, never stopped me from pressing on. Regret is a waste of time as well, plus I have too much A D D to actually regret, I have a bad memory for a cancer!!!!!! I can not even remember my families actual birthdays its so bad. What was my point.... OH YEAH this aspect is not a curse! Plus, if I have it in my chart it is prob kinda good BAHAHA Though, I do have this fear of general safety for people I love and I make my friends or loved ones call and text me after driving home at night or walking alone or things I find sketchy. I am very watchful of people and their well beings. Could this be part of this aspect? I have made my friends give me info on new guys they started to date, like their address and tell them to ask about their parents and stuff. That could also be a weird Cancerian thing. I may have been nit picky with the guys my friends may date if I get bad gut feelings.. but overall most of the bfs I had always said I was very pleasant and accepting and made them feel so confident cuz I am very supportive. Except for like one.

Oh yeah though I am veryyyy critical of the way I look, always have been. I gain weight easily.... :(with pie and cake) and I hateeeeeeeee when people become too demanding in relationships worst! I feel my heart break plus I do attract very cap types. I attract very ambitious people, I am very laid back go figure!
 

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Hi!
Like story of my life really. I do have Saturn square sun, Venus and
Neptune. Depressed very often. Don´t consider myself good
enough. Sometimes life seems so hard...trying to cope!

ok, I reread this thread 4 times. Great insights You gave Me Mates
Here is My Chart
with Love
SOILE



spacecadet said:
hi I have just joined this site and have spent the evening avidly reading through many of the wonderful threads on the site. I wonder if I could reopen the discussion about Venus square Saturn. After many years of self analysis and healing I have returned to this placement with an awareness that it is at the crux of every problem I have. I am interested to hear how others with this placement have worked through it or transformed its action in their lives.
My Saturn is in Leo 2nd square Venus Scorpio end of 4th (I interpret as 5th).
ultimately my astrological map, my childhood and the life I have since created have held an ongoing theme of lonliness, sadness and that I am never going to be good enough or lovable. In relationships thisbrings out a needy, mistrustful, over defensive streak. There are positive aspects to my self and my life but this underlying theme has devastated my intimate relationships and interferes with my ability to consciously create the life I desire. Neptune is currently squaring my Venus and opposing my Saturn, activating the placement in my awareness but also confusing me. I know this issue is about self worth but I was raised within a family that was disfunctional, touch was near enough banned, i was a lonely only child, dad left one day and never heard from him again, i never felt loved and the message I got was 'do better'. The message i took from all this wss 'i'm not good enough'. If i have never perceived that i am truly loved (lovable) how can I ever truly know what it is to love myself? I thought I did love myself but my previous relationships have shown me that I'm still amillion miles of target. My esteem crashes in a relationship because i dont belive they love me. I compare myself to everyone around and feel inferior next to them, then i mistrust him thinking he is after every other woman. Its so unhealthy I know but there seems to be nothing I can do about it save taking my boyfriend to an island uninhabited by other women!!
This isn't a 'therapy' website but I would really appreciate hearing positive ways of coping with this extremly difficult aspect. How many of you are in loving healthy relationships? If you felt like this before, what did you do to improve your selfesteem? (PLs excuse any poor readability as I have typed this MSG on my phone and can't see what I'm writing!)
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spacecadet said:
hi I have just joined this site and have spent the evening avidly reading through many of the wonderful threads on the site. I wonder if I could reopen the discussion about Venus square Saturn. After many years of self analysis and healing I have returned to this placement with an awareness that it is at the crux of every problem I have. I am interested to hear how others with this placement have worked through it or transformed its action in their lives.
My Saturn is in Leo 2nd square Venus Scorpio end of 4th (I interpret as 5th).
ultimately my astrological map, my childhood and the life I have since created have held an ongoing theme of lonliness, sadness and that I am never going to be good enough or lovable. In relationships thisbrings out a needy, mistrustful, over defensive streak. There are positive aspects to my self and my life but this underlying theme has devastated my intimate relationships and interferes with my ability to consciously create the life I desire. Neptune is currently squaring my Venus and opposing my Saturn, activating the placement in my awareness but also confusing me. I know this issue is about self worth but I was raised within a family that was disfunctional, touch was near enough banned, i was a lonely only child, dad left one day and never heard from him again, i never felt loved and the message I got was 'do better'. The message i took from all this wss 'i'm not good enough'. If i have never perceived that i am truly loved (lovable) how can I ever truly know what it is to love myself? I thought I did love myself but my previous relationships have shown me that I'm still amillion miles of target. My esteem crashes in a relationship because i dont belive they love me. I compare myself to everyone around and feel inferior next to them, then i mistrust him thinking he is after every other woman. Its so unhealthy I know but there seems to be nothing I can do about it save taking my boyfriend to an island uninhabited by other women!!
This isn't a 'therapy' website but I would really appreciate hearing positive ways of coping with this extremly difficult aspect. How many of you are in loving healthy relationships? If you felt like this before, what did you do to improve your selfesteem? (PLs excuse any poor readability as I have typed this MSG on my phone and can't see what I'm writing!)
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Not give a **** and know that you're good enough and that you can change, know that it may take some time to get right and work on improving, don't be a victim. My placements are moon conjunct Saturn, moon square venus and Venus square Saturn, Mars square Pluto, Mars conjunct Jupiter, moon in aries(so is Saturn), Venus in Capricorn retrograde at 18°, Jupiter 29° Aquarius, Mars in Pisces, Mercury conjunct Neptune, Mercury at the end of Capricorn at 28°, 0° Aquarius Neptune, rising is cancer 20°, and south node Pisces, north node virgo. Sun in Aquarius conjunct Uranus sextile Pluto, Saturn and moon trine Pluto loose aspect of 8° , sun and Jupiter in 8th house, moon and Saturn in 10th, Mars in 9th, Pluto in sag 5th, Venus conjunct descendant in 6th house, Mercury in 7th, Neptune and Uranus in 8th, but intercepted in 7th, like Pluto is in 6th but intercepted. But as you can see I have a very big amount of karma, idky but it's what we have to deal with. I also have BML in 3rd house, mean in libra conjunct ic, and true in virgo conjunct north node exact. But here's the thing, I'm not giving up, I'mma take my time and learn from every relationship I'm in good or bad no matter how bad I feel or upset I get, I know with time everything is gonna fall in place. Plus I'm a 21 y/o man.
 
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