Erika-
Oh my poor sister feels the same way! I hope things look up for you!!!
I looked at your chart and saw Uranus in the first house. Mentally I went right back to when Uranus started to go through my first house by tranist.
I met the wierdest people, and wonderful great people (in wierd situations). It seemed as though these people that I met were attracted to me in some way, not physically but they had told me like they knew me or felt comfortable around me.
Some of these wierdo's that came around were men.
One man told me that his wife couldnt have relations with him because he was on the large side and she had to have surgery. Then he wanted to give me his card to contact him!
Another guy told me that my lipstick was nice. Said that women wore lipstick to mimick the female parts below, to attract a mate. Then he looked at my shoes, said that they had heels. He said that the heels allowed for a forward tilt to the pelvis so that it would look as though the female was ready for childbearing!
Both situations happened on a plane by the way!
There were other stories but these were the worst by far.
It got so weird that I contacted another member here and we deduced at the time it was Uranus through my first house setting off my Uranus-venus opposition (I believe). Uranus is in the 9th house.
I think that Uranus in the 1st is a wonderful placement. It shows to others that you are unique, eccentric, fun. You might want to look up aquarius rising and see if that fits you. Along with the scorpio rising, I think people are naturally attracted to you. All types from all places.
Since I met most of these people from other places on planes during travel, I agree with Astrologer50!
I also agree with Kaminari. You have the power to change people! Power as pluto rules scorpio, pluto in the 12th house (maybe meeting people that are different/taboo from regular society), and Uranus rules 4th house, of home (where people may feel comfortable with you).
You also have chiron in your 7th house, and since I am still researching Chiron on my own, here is a website that may help.
http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/chironinhouses.html
I think that this may be frustrating to you, but you are with them during these phases of transformation in their lives and it is a blessing that you are, because the 12th house pluto is about overcoming limitations.
You have the power to overcome limitations, and can be a teacher for these that need your help.
Also 12th house Plutonian people have the ability to heal others. Once you feel comfortable with the process of things breaking down to rebuild, you can help to heal these people.