Difficult Year Passed -(birthday) matters of love and marriage

Hello!!

Greetings
My Birth Details

GJ (MALE)
Born on October 30, 1987 at 10:28PM in FARIDABAD, Haryana, INDIA

I had a very rough year (from birthday to birthday). Things were good professionally even though i couldnot focus - work remained stable with no growth.
I had a very tough personal & love life, bad mental health. I feared getting into a relationship and all my fears came true. I had a bad year with all my friends and family to the point of thinking 'I am better alone'
Meanwhile i learnt a lot and made some changes in myself. If I look back i cannot decide if it was for good or bad.
There has been a huge pressure for marriage (as happens in INDIA) from family whichh i dont want to get into for I still fear it and i am still unsure with my girlfriend (I dont feel like going ahead, neither can I breakup)

Could the seniors please predict the year ahead for me
Could they lease predict, the lessons i shall learn this year
Could the please enlighten me with predictions on my marriage (when & with what kind of person), personal life (friends, family & mental peace), profession
Could they please enlighten me with my purpouse here?

I think i have asked for too much.
Thanks

The details of my girl friend are as below

(FEMALE)
Born on September 4, 1987 at 8:40AM in FARIDABAD, Haryana, INDIA

please help!!