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Unread 10-16-2014, 08:07 PM
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What should one look for in a new partner's chart that might reveal aberrational sex, criminal (pedophilia, rape) or consensual (just kinky)? Better safe than sorry.

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Unread 10-16-2014, 10:38 PM
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Re: Kinky sex

Chiron 16 Pisces is trine Mars 21 Cancer and Venus 23 Cancer. Too wide an orb?

Eris is 11 Aries, which seems much too wide a square.
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Unread 10-17-2014, 03:06 AM
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look for chiron and eris aspects to mars and venus.

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What does Eris do?
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define kinky

50 shades of grey has become a mass product making bdsm to be considered "normal"
Popular fiction doesn't make the fiction normal; generally those stories interest people because they aren't normal.

So no, BDSM isn't normal in the sense of widely practiced. But it is widely known about.

I'd associate kinkiness with Mars/Venus in Aquarius, or in strong aspect to Uranus (and that could go for any kind of kinkiness, as all that means is outside of the norm to me). Or Uranus on the cusp of the 5th or 8th houses, or in those houses, could be a possibility.

A young man that probably had the strangest sex life that I've known has Mars in Aquarius, square Scorpio Pluto, Venus in Capricorn and Sun conjunct Saturn in Scorpio. He is bisexual, into BDSM, participated in pornography, and definitely wasn't shy about any of it.

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Unread 10-18-2014, 05:11 AM
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Re: Kinky sex

It must be Saggitarius. Fire signs are bold and daring, and Saggitarius appeals to a wide and diverse interest. Its been talked about before that Mars in Capricorn or Scorpio are the ones with into the 'kinky' things. Capricorn makes sense since BDSM is mostly a power thing, and Cap is all about power and status.
Venus in Aquarius doesn't come to my mind when 'kinky' is brought up... Maybe Sun or other planets in Aqua, but not Venus...

If the ruler of the 8th house is in a terrible position, then that's one sign to watch out for.
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Unread 10-18-2014, 08:51 PM
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Jeffrey Wolfe Green published 2 books on Pluto. Excellent reads. In the second book he covered in depth venus and mars signs. His views are.Virgo and Pisces lean towards sm. Virgo just never feels clean enough, pure enough or good enough. And nobody else is either. Pisces can be passive aggressive and have zero boundries. Cancers like the whole spanking thing. Spank me mommy! Caps like anal.i cant remember why. Everyone knows that aquarius likes.anything weird. I think all signs and many aspects can have kinky tendencies.
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Unread 10-21-2014, 05:01 PM
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Re: Kinky sex

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Popular fiction doesn't make the fiction normal; generally those stories interest people because they aren't normal.

So no, BDSM isn't normal in the sense of widely practiced. But it is widely known about.

I'd associate kinkiness with Mars/Venus in Aquarius, or in strong aspect to Uranus (and that could go for any kind of kinkiness, as all that means is outside of the norm to me). Or Uranus on the cusp of the 5th or 8th houses, or in those houses, could be a possibility.

A young man that probably had the strangest sex life that I've known has Mars in Aquarius, square Scorpio Pluto, Venus in Capricorn and Sun conjunct Saturn in Scorpio. He is bisexual, into BDSM, participated in pornography, and definitely wasn't shy about any of it.
Interesting what you mention.
I have Venus in late Cap, Mars in late Aqua. Uranus rising in late Scorpio is square Mars and sextile Venus. I also have Lilith and Juno in Scorpio 12th.
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Unread 10-21-2014, 09:32 PM
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because saturn rules the outer core of the root chakra and in their case it's so strong it reduces the plutonic activity so they physically need to crack it to release some of the energy so they can start to feel good

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7tApWi_P2jw

if you want to look at people who are kinky right now those would be
The outer core of the root chakra? What does that mean? I'm very sure Saturn rules the main base chakra and its extensions.

Interesting theory with the video though.
Thanks for sharing
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Unread 10-28-2014, 04:45 PM
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Re: Kinky sex

Sagittarius isn't what I'd call kinky, just open to ideas and willing to try anything at least once. For kinky, I'd look at Mars in Scorpio, Capricorn or Virgo. But remember, it's about the whole chart and how sexuality is integrated in the personality.

I know a fellow with Mars in the 10th, tightly conjunct his MC in Virgo and Venus in Scorpio in the 12th. For years, he was involved in extreme sports, prostitution and the **** industry in addition to being a sex addict. He has a dungeon set up in his home where it's all about exerting control and breaking every possible taboo. Yet, when you meet him, he seems very mild mannered and no one would ever guess.
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Re: Kinky sex

I don't think there is "normal" sex (bar rape of course, before anybody flames me..) but I'd agree with Venus in Aquarius. Or perhaps Uranus trine, sextile or conjunct Venus. Normal in sex is culturally defined (IMHO).
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Unread 10-30-2014, 02:51 AM
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Rape I would associate with Scorpio/Pluto influences. Pedophilia I associate with Pisces/Neptune. Since they have more trouble seeing what they do as wrong or seeing themselves clearly, also boundaries are usually an issue.

But I'd associate all things kinky with aquarius. -Mars, Venus or Moons.
They are able to disassociate more easily with the things they do and have a love for the weird. So in essence are more open to just about everything.

Astrodatabank has plenty of charts to study if your are interested in what the charts of rapists or pedophiles look like. There are usually common themes in the charts, from what I saw when I went digging into such.

All this is very general though.
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Unread 11-13-2014, 08:27 AM
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What should one look for in a new partner's chart that might reveal aberrational sex, criminal (pedophilia, rape) or consensual (just kinky)? Better safe than sorry.
Capricorn sun.
Sorry, I just had to say it. It is not a serious respond.
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Re: Kinky sex

Capricorns do have some peculiar interests. I know quite a few of them who are into stuff like 2 guys with one girl...lol not that there is anything wrong with that, but just the idea of it, its definitely not my cup of tea. A lot of them are into buying hookers as well.

I think it can be a bit of a perverted sign, Imo the reason is that its governed by 2 malefics: mars and saturn. With those 2 in charge theres definitely an opening for some depravity.
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Unread 12-16-2014, 05:07 PM
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Re: Kinky sex

What about Cancer. Nothing said about that. I will assure you very Much that this is a kinky sign. Cancer moon (in 5th house this is my placement) it seems is very much into the playful kinky side of things. However not too aggressive or rough that is a turn off. I am open to just about anything as long as people take it slow and put emotion into it or a feeling of spiritual connection.

With this placement it seems very few people fit me sexually cause most are just into the material act itself. It is the sentiment and emotion behind it that matters more so or feeling of oneness with the universe. Materialistic sex is well boring and conformist.
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Unread 12-18-2014, 12:52 AM
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Re: Kinky sex

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What should one look for in a new partner's chart that might reveal aberrational sex, criminal (pedophilia, rape) or consensual (just kinky)? Better safe than sorry.
Consensual kinky sex, Uranus with Mars, in good aspect
Rape and abuse, Pluto with Moon, Sun, Mars. challenging aspect,
Paedophilia, Pluto, Mars, perhaps with Mercury challenging aspects, but there are so many scenarios. Then there are the houses to consider. Composite charts for the relationship between the parties.

You would need to post the charts in question so we can take a look at the potentials. Anonymously of course.
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Unread 12-24-2014, 04:47 AM
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Re: Kinky sex

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Consensual kinky sex, Uranus with Mars, in good aspect
Rape and abuse, Pluto with Moon, Sun, Mars. challenging aspect,
Paedophilia, Pluto, Mars, perhaps with Mercury challenging aspects, but there are so many scenarios. Then there are the houses to consider. Composite charts for the relationship between the parties.

You would need to post the charts in question so we can take a look at the potentials. Anonymously of course.
This came true in my case. Although it wasn't sexual at all. I was physically abused as a child (quite severely). I'm on counselling at the moment for it. My life has felt like it's been that of a slave for 28.5 yrs. I'm 29 now and I've just liberated myself for the first time in my life.

These aspects definitely show who was a victim of abuse sexually or non sexually either way. So it's true what you say.
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