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Will I like him

A neighbour-friend of mine wants me to meet a friend of hers

... It's getting really annoying, people are trying to set me up cause they think I'm ''love-retarded''

Anyway, she really insisted on this meeting so I agreed to meet him.

Since I'm not very hopeful about my love life anymore I asked the question

''Will I like him?''
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Re: Will I like him

I am venus in libra in rulership in the 6th house.
He is mars in sag in the 8th house, his second.

Venus will sextile Mars in 3 units probably showing that a meeting will happen.

Moon is in aqua, ruled by saturn in the 11th house but void.

I don't see anything good here regarding ''liking each other''.
Well if we don't we can tell each other that they ''forced us'' into this meeting.


What do you think?

I am attaching chart in Regio and Whole Signs.

Thank you so much
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Re: Will I like him

Since Mars is in 8th, I wonder if that's an indication that he might be in it for sex? Maybe astrologers here can refute my assumption
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Since Mars is in 8th, I wonder if that's an indication that he might be in it for sex? Maybe astrologers here can refute my assumption
But the 8th is not only about sex. It is also about intimacy and close emotional relationships.
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Since Mars is in 8th, I wonder if that's an indication that he might be in it for sex? Maybe astrologers here can refute my assumption
Thanks for taking a look kai.
I really don't know.
I'm pretty suspicious of men I meet, not at all naive even though some think I am. Well if he's only after s*x, believe me he won't get any
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But the 8th is not only about sex. It is also about intimacy and close emotional relationships.
Thank you katy.
I would be very happy if that's what he's looking for
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just go meet the person ... its not like your parents selling you to the guy .. lol
meet him at the coffee place .. if you dont like him.. run out from the back door
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Hey, tikana sweetie
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just go meet the person ... its not like your parents selling you to the guy .. lol


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meet him at the coffee place .. if you dont like him.. run out from the back door
That did cross my mind but it would be rude and it would be insulting to my neighbor-friend ... I'll go and we'll see ... maybe he will be the one running out from the back door
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Is he rich?
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Is he rich?




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You can’t miss out on these details!
Run another horary
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You canít miss out on these details!
Run another horary

...asking ''Is he rich ??"
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Keep us posted ))
Usually his intentions are felt on the first date. I learned to ask what the guy is looking for They are usually straightforward about it.
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Meeting happened a few hours ago

Before I update I would like your astro opinion on what this chart showed so that we can all learn from this.

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I didn’t see anything that great with it. Mars doesn’t like where Venus is. Not long term as he won’t be fond of where you are in life.
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Meeting happened a few hours ago

Before I update I would like your astro opinion on what this chart showed so that we can all learn from this.

Thank you !
hi!
nothing will happen... i do not see future to this
is in detriment of (something will not be ok with him) and soon will meet (separation)
is in the burned area () in the 6th House, No promising... also with antiscia is exactly on10 degrees of Neptune .... witch have a square with Saturn.... from the 11th H (friends)
also the last aspect of was with (him), and getting away from him...
the moon is the lord of the 4th house (the end)
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hi!
nothing will happen... i do not see future to this
is in detriment of (something will not be ok with him) and soon will meet (separation)
is in the burned area () in the 6th House, No promising... also with antiscia is exactly on10 degrees of Neptune .... witch have a square with Saturn.... from the 11th H (friends)
also the last aspect of was with (him), and getting away from him...
the moon is the lord of the 4th house (the end)
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I didnít see anything that great with it. Mars doesnít like where Venus is. Not long term as he wonít be fond of where you are in life.

Hi girls.

Since the question was ''Will I like him?'' do you think I did?

I don't know if horary can show these stuff, maybe it was a superficial question and maybe this horary isn't valid, I don't know, just testing.
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I will begin by saying that I don't know how to follow the horary rules. So I am probably way off.

But in using 'event' chart rules, I would say that YES, you did like him. You are Venus, he is Mars, and you are in your own sign, and felt confident and that you could be yourself.

I think he gave you his number and he wants YOU to initiate further contact, and you will probably do so, since there is an applying trine to the Mars in the 8th.

I think he is a solid guy, with an optimistic outlook in life, although he is just getting back on his feet after a traumatic/difficult period. But he has sincere nature and your friend had good reason to believe you might like each other?
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I don't see that you liked him. Venus is in the sign where it dislikes Sun and Mars....And Sun, is in fall of Venus. And Mars has no interest in Venus, Moon also in detriment of Sun. This is not a good relationship chart
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Hi girls.

Since the question was ''Will I like him?'' do you think I did?

I don't know if horary can show these stuff, maybe it was a superficial question and maybe this horary isn't valid, I don't know, just testing.
chris sorry if my answer was not clear but i think that you will not like him.
nothing with him
all my information is in my above answer
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Hi girls.

Since the question was ''Will I like him?'' do you think I did?

I don't know if horary can show these stuff, maybe it was a superficial question and maybe this horary isn't valid, I don't know, just testing.

Well, based on the reception, it looks like you would be pretty lukewarm about him. As I read it, there is no significant reception from you/Venus to Mars in Sag.
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Girls, thank you so much for your time

My neighbor-friend gave him my tel number, he called and we arranged a coffee date on Saturday.

The guy is good looking, actually too good looking for me - he deserves better. If I were interested in just having a fling this guy would be totally it.

What I didn't like about him was that he seemed quite shallow. I got that from our conversation, I will spare you the details. He also admitted that he had ''checked'' me out a few days before - he knows where I live - and that's why he decided to call me. I know I'm not being fair here on this one, but that kind of bothered me

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I didnít see anything that great with it. Mars doesnít like where Venus is. Not long term as he wonít be fond of where you are in life.
Hi Bun. He ''pretended'' to like me. I don't know if it was genuine or not. We could be friends to chit chat but nothing more.


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hi!
nothing will happen... i do not see future to this
is in detriment of (something will not be ok with him) and soon will meet (separation)
is in the burned area () in the 6th House, No promising... also with antiscia is exactly on10 degrees of Neptune .... witch have a square with Saturn.... from the 11th H (friends)
also the last aspect of was with (him), and getting away from him...
the moon is the lord of the 4th house (the end)
Thank you sunrise, yep, nothing will happen!



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chris sorry if my answer was not clear but i think that you will not like him.
nothing with him
all my information is in my above answer
good luck
I liked his looks, I didn't like the fact that he was so superficial.

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I will begin by saying that I don't know how to follow the horary rules. So I am probably way off.

But in using 'event' chart rules, I would say that YES, you did like him. You are Venus, he is Mars, and you are in your own sign, and felt confident and that you could be yourself.

I think he gave you his number and he wants YOU to initiate further contact, and you will probably do so, since there is an applying trine to the Mars in the 8th.

I think he is a solid guy, with an optimistic outlook in life, although he is just getting back on his feet after a traumatic/difficult period. But he has sincere nature and your friend had good reason to believe you might like each other?
Hi katy. If I were younger, I'm sure I would have liked him much more. He does seem to have a sincere nature, he is very good mannered, just seemed a bit shallow. He is an athlete and a bit too much into looks. He needs to work more on his personality. My neighbor friend is 16 years younger than I am ... not a very good judge of character yet, has a long way to go Her gesture was very kind and thoughtful though.
I'm telling you ... a lot of people I know are trying to fix me up with somebody... I feel so lucky to have people who care, around me.


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I don't see that you liked him. Venus is in the sign where it dislikes Sun and Mars....And Sun, is in fall of Venus. And Mars has no interest in Venus, Moon also in detriment of Sun. This is not a good relationship chart
Hi rafaella, he's good looking but just not the type I'm usually attracted to. I'm not attracted to men who are more vain than women


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chris sorry if my answer was not clear but i think that you will not like him.
nothing with him
all my information is in my above answer
good luck
Correct sweet sunrise. I didn't like him enough to consider going on a second date with him.

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Well, based on the reception, it looks like you would be pretty lukewarm about him. As I read it, there is no significant reception from you/Venus to Mars in Sag.
You are so right my dearest Ilene


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I don't think you liked him very much. You are dignified though, so it's not like you hated him. A dignified planet can't really be malicious in thoughts or deeds...especially Venus, a benefic. But as others mentioned, Venus is in the detriment of Mars and fall of the Sun Sun...so no matter if you take the 5th or 7th ruler, the guy is not receptive to you. He didn't understand you at all. Plus the Moon is Void indicating you won't want further dates with the guy.
Hi Luce. No, of course not. I don't ''hate'' him, I am just indifferent. We are totally different people.
You are right, no more dates.




I wasn't really sure if he liked me as I was brutally honest about what it is I want and am interested in, in a man. I didn't think he would bother with me.
Maybe what he sensed as ''rejection'' fuelled his interest. Today, Sunday at 17:45 I got a text message from him asking if I would like to go out tonight. I replied a few hours later telling him that I had already made plans - which was true - and besides that, we had already had this talk yesterday, why bother going out again as we are totally different - he didn't reply.
End of Story.
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